Do you ever just look in the mirror and think to yourself “who is that, she is hot?”.
Honestly when I go to bed at night, freshly showered and lotioned with the hint of rose blossom. I feel incredibly beautiful.
That moment when I slide into my sheets and my head touches the pillow is probably the most raw moment of me and yet it’s my best moment.
I am not constrained by looking a certain way, dressing a certain way in order to feel good and confident. I am stripped of all those things and my bare self and yet the happier self is there.
That’s how we should always see ourselves.
That saying beauty is in the eye of the beholder is so true. If you don’t feel it when you look into that mirror, then you have done yourself an injustice.
Because beauty is not about the skin, its not about how others see you, it’s about how you feel about you and how that carries to how you feel about others.
Next time you stand in front of the mirror, don’t compare yourself to others. Look at who you are and what you bring to the world.
Credits:-
Claudine Blush dress from Sascha’s Designs at
Gem eyes from Amara Beauty
Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E
Sweet gloss lipstick from A R T E
Amanda hair from D!VA
Catya bento head from CATWA
Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz
Lara mesh body Maitreya
Edie skin in 04 from Amara Beauty
Isabelle Cheren 
I always feel more beautiful when not looking in the mirror. I have no idea what that says about me! 😀 You sound delicious when you go to bed Isa!
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Lol edible almost. I used to use a coconut one till my daughter got me this as a gift
I’ll try lemon next lol
I love bedtime. No makeup, no bra, nothing to worry about. Just bliss
I feel skinnier too as I’m not squeezing in my jeans 👖
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Well you ARE beautiful my friend both outwardly and inward! They say/paraphrasing , “you have to learn to love yourself before you can love anyone else” As always I love your post Is!
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Awww thank you. There is a reason I wrote this post. A friend has such a negative view on herself about many things. A place I will often go in my head as well.
The other day she was really in the belief that she was not worthy of a job interview. We had a conversation about believing in yourself and loving yourself first before anything. It reminded me of how many of us often see ourselves because we compare to ideals or images that we cannot attain. So I thought yep I need to share a bit of this. I think we all have moments of self doubt in ourselves and we need to remind ourselves that we are individuals with so much to us
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We all beat ourselves up at times unfortunately
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Yeah. We do and need to remind ourselves how lucky we are 😊
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