Whats inside the house

Good morning, good evening or even good afternoon. Wherever you may be in the world.

Apparently it’s hump day again.

These hump days seem to be floating by rather quickly and I’m having less and less time to get things done in both worlds.

Two days ago I started feeling the inklings of being unwell. Today’s it’s starting to settle in nicely in.

Every part of this old body is aching and I have the statutory fuzzy head and grouchy mood to go with it.

I simply want to go back to bed and sleep. But soldier on as the saying goes I must.

It’s hard to take time to be sick when work is short staffed with other people off being sick.

One of those situations of damned if you do and damned that you don’t.

So I’ll go hibernate behind my computer monitor at the back of the room and hope for a second wave of energy.

Have a great day and for all the American and Canadian friends I have, enjoy the start to your preparations for thanksgiving.

Look out for the people that aren’t so fortunate and just give some time or something to make their days brighter. It only takes a moment.

PS this dress has a hud!!! But sadly I couldn’t show you as the video didn’t save. I call it the ombré colour but definitely worth looking at as it’s lovely.


Pippa Dress from D.E. Boutique at the Designer Showcase

Naomi hair from enVOGUE

A book worth reading pose from Luanes World

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Grace skin in toffee shade from [theSkinnery]

Designer Showcase


A little bit of …

Well for modesty and facebooks sake, the nipple shields sit on the main picture.

I’m still wondering why as women we can’t walk around like this in today’s society and not feel like it’s perfectly ok?

Every single day in the summer months I see men walking around with no shirts, nipples pointed out to the world and it’s perfectly fine, but our boobies are not.

Those same boobies that have fed many a mouth of a child and adorn our bodies in many sizes and shapes. We have a right to be proud.

We have to hide them in case someone finds them offensive, sexually exciting or just plain non interested.

Now let me tell you if my boobies pointed in the direction these do, I’d be totally proud to walk tall.

Sadly the reality is that the majority of us have discovered gravity!!

Gravity is only surpassed by amazing genetics or plastic surgery it seems.

My boobies have seen many things in their lifetime. They’ve been fondled upon, fed children, seen hospitals, travelled extensively. But most if not least, are present with me at every single moment of my 24/7 day, 365 days a year.

My boobies have had shared the good and the really bad times. They’ve supported many a plate of dinner when I can’t be bothered sitting at the dining table.

They’re my best friends and frankly I am proud that I was lucky enough to make friends with them, despite the fact they really have let me down by their attention to gravity.

Women, be proud of your boobies. Big or small, scarred, dimpled, whatever state they come in.

Every single day at least 140 women in the U.K. are diagnosed with breast cancer.

Check your boobies regularly. Feel proud of them and remember, they walk with you for life.

Gun gal.jpg


Zara outfit from ASIA now at the Hash in Black

Betty hair from [elikatira]

One shot pose (with guns) from Gingerfish I picked up from eBENTO

Only in my dream pose from Luanes Pose

Gothic backdrop from Focus Poses

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Grace toffee skin from  [theSkinnery]


One day in Ibiza

Harriet decided to go away to relieve some of her angst at losing her job at the BBC. Her tv station went bankrupt and so Harriet decided to go to Ibiza.

We follow Harriet Parker on her hedonistic holiday of a lifetime as she finds herself again.


Credits :-

High Waist Ripy jean from La Geeny

Fenna top from La Geeny

Livis Heels from Bijou

Madalyn hair from enVOGUE

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at Baja Norte and  Tequila Sunrise 

Ittty bitty isn’t it

Need I say more!

Itty bitty ha ha

Clearly a non You Tube moment because well…

It’s Saturday and man I’m glad it is. This week has been the week from hell and beyond.

The usual clique culture that makes you question why people behave in this gang type of culture.

I came into work after being out of the office on training for a week. Discovered that one lady had left. I know why she left.

She found the isolation and singling out by the cliques hard to deal with and so had gone. She just didn’t come back.

But since then, they’re still doing it. Still gossiping about her and still bullying even though she isn’t present any longer.

I do wonder when cliques get together, do they ever stop and think about the mental damage they do to the person they single out?

I’m guessing no one stops to consider that.

I’ve never liked cliques and never been part of any.

I like to make my own mind up and not be driven by the views of others.

I just wish more people would be less led and more independent of influence.

Maybe there would be less bullying in the world and less people who feel alone and isolated. Who knows.

Suffice to say it has affected my week because you can’t win against those types of bullies because as a pack they don’t hear or see sense. Until it happens to them.

I’m one of the people amongst a few the clique likes to affect. The only difference with me is, I am never driven out by anyone and in fact often stand my ground despite the anguish it causes me, just to prove that point.

What goes around, comes around. And ladies, it’s certainly coming around….

If you are subject to bullies you can find help

Here and Here


Pics :-

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Nightmare dress from ::OOPS:: at the XXX Event

Run the world hair from Exile

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at Luanes World


The day I recorded the video it certainly was dismal. But today?

Nope it has been s glorious crisp sunny day here in the south of England. I have no complaints, because it’s also Friday and I’m free!!!



Irelands call outfit from Entice at the Designer Showcase

What I hide pose from Luanes World

Juvel eyes from A R T E at the Cosmopolitan Event

Charlotte hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

The prescence

Sometimes it’s the unspoken moments that are the most powerful.

Oh you thought I meant the picture?

No, when I pop my head on the pillow and finally sleep!

Good morning everyone, have a great day.


Jackson for letting me use his body

Sensual chair pose from Viv.a! at the Hash on Black event

Giselle lingerie from Erratic

Betty hair from [elikatira]

Liquid eyeliner from A R T E

Sweet lip gloss from A R T E

Gothic background from Focus Poses

Armchair from the September Shadow Box from Death Row Designs

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

ASMR channel move

So I’ve basically taken the decision to get into this ASMR thing as it’s actually kind of relaxing and also fun to do.

Because it’s one of those things a bit like marmite. You either love it or it’s like nails down a chalkboard, I’ve moved it to my RL channel. I’m just getting started so don’t expect anything outstanding.

Another adventure begins.