Be the alpha woman you are

Be the alpha woman you are

Today’s post is about being your own person.

Not a follower of the masses, nor a leader of none.

Stepping out into that wide world and being commander of your own life and taking charge of where it’s going.

There are many of us around that are alpha females but continue to “behave” in order to our surroundings and ways we have been educated by society.

What makes an alpha woman?

  1. She doesn’t give up easily. She sees what she wants and makes every effort to work to that goal.
  2. She is confident enough to make the first move. Be it in relationships or life choices. She is ok to make a mistakes.
  3. An alpha woman is loyal to her tribe. She is confident enough to not let jealousy affect her spirit and her sense of loyalty and caring is guaranteed to her friends.
  4. The alpha woman knows what she truly wants out of life. Her goal is her prize and she is not afraid to work towards it. Knowing that she may be in it for the long haul. She doesn’t cheat to get it either. She is not afraid to pull up her sleeves and work hard.
  5. She has no fear of being alone. She is content in her own company and doesn’t require another to define her. She doesn’t need a man at her side 24/7 and can achieve many of her interests on her own.
  6. When she loves, she loves with intensity. She gives 100% to the recipient. Although she can walk alone in life, when she is given the trust and love, she gives it back tenfold.
  7. She has ambition and always striving to fulfill goals she sets herself. Her ideal mate is someone not afraid of this. Equally someone who holds this trait too.
  8. She speakers up for what she believes in and voicing her thoughts on injustice.
  9. She is protector to her inner tribe and fiercely loyal to all women.
  10. She doesn’t gossip or play games, especially about her tribe.

The one great thing about an Alpha woman is she does not feel the need to put other women down.

She is not competitive agains her tribe, but confident in her own goals and thoughts. Therefore she would never bring down another woman.

Are you an alpha woman?

Credits:-

Demi dress from UNA at the EQUAL10 Event

Hera hair from KUNI at the EQUAL10 Event

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Metal lipstick from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Shot on location at The Great Fissure

A case of ………

A case of ………

Thelma decides to take Trevor out for the day. Its his first time at the local park and crawling around the play area.

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Credits:-

Girls like you top and shorts from Entice

Spring eyeshadow from A R T E

Natural gloss from A R T E

Simone bento head from Lelutka

Freya Mesh body from Belleza

Iza dark skin from Lara Hurley

Trevor Junior from Zooby

Trevor’s outfit from Sweet Penelope

Shot on location at Miami Park for Children and Peace of Mind Doctors office

BEACH BABY

BEACH BABY

Today I’m off for the day with my friends to the beach. Well not in a bikini, it’s raining. Or drizzling. But we are still out and about as rain will go and the afternoon promises to be bright.

I’ve considered in investing in a blow up pool like Raindale’s Sulrance pool for the balcony. However the reality of that is, emptying it.

My daughter said just wait till night and tip it over the balcony.

As tempting as that idea is, I think I will skip it.

The guy downstairs would not be impressed and I’m sure would come bounding to my front door.

Hmmmm on Second thoughts, he is handsome and I could offer an apologetic beverage.

In the meantime my two bitches can protect me from the irate neighbours.

Credits:-

Criss Cross bikini from Pachielli  at the EQUAL10 Event

Sulrance pool from Raindale at the Equal10 Event. Has a hud and both PG and Adult versions

Doberman pose from Fashiowl

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Sweet gloss lipstick from A R T E

Bonnie hair from Kuni

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Caliente BBQ from What Next

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty

Spring bloom and Tulip planters from What Next

Wired patio set from Chez Moi

Block party backdrop from FoxCity

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Normal is boring

Normal is boring

G’day.

I can’t really say good morning because the morning is nearly over and by the time my chubby fingers have tapped out this blog post, it will probably be late afternoon!

My alarm was set for 8am. I got up at 10.50am.

I’m sweating like a toasted cheese under the grill right now, with the plastic wrapper still on it!

I was planning to sit out on the balcony in the sun but the sun on my balcony feels like a blow torch on high. So maybe not.

Is normal boring?

Depends what you consider normal for starters and what your threshold for boring is.

I’m far from “normal” and far from ever feeling bored.

As long as I breathe and have an imagination, life is always interesting and at times surreal.

Credits:-

Esther Dress from ::OOPS!:: at the Sense Event

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Sweet gloss lipstick from A R T E

Charlotte hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty

Shot on location at Esoteric beach

Good morning world!

Good morning world!

Strangely last night I set my alarm like I do most days when I jumped into bed. I knew it was a holiday today, but habit is a funny thing.

The alarm went off at its usual 5.30 am and as I rolled over to turn it off, I asked myself what on Earth I was doing.

Today in the UK it’s a public holiday. I don’t have to get up and do anything. In fact all week is s holiday for me.

In fact if I wanted to luxuriate in bed all day, why the heck not.

The only problem with that is, it’s gorgeously warm and as easy to stay in bed as it could be.

I’d end up with a minge smelling like Filet D’Fish!

I like my morning and night showers and the smell of fresh clean and soap.

So here I recline with hair up, freshly showered, drinking tea and waiting for the Amazon man!

Clearly in reality I am dressed. But made you think didn’t it “Is she?”.

Credits:-

No Panic  lingerie set (there are gloves and a hud!) from Entice

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Cute freckles for Genus and Omega appliers from A R T E

Spring Joy bed from Aphrodite/Heart Homes

NO_WTF ! hair from no.match at the Hair fair

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty

Visiting Esoteric and Social media

Visiting Esoteric and Social media

In todays Coffee I show you a glimpse of a lovely destination called Esoteric in Second Life. It is an adult area and so of course, try and be an adult when  visiting.

Its a great place to visit because of the event nights they have there for socialising and also the very beautiful grounds that were created for people to relax and explore.

It is adult themed  but I am not showing you those bits, so there!!

What I will show you is a glimpse of the grounds as I do my coffee vlog and talk about todays topic I promised in last weeks I would raise.

Details of the event nights will be below the video and I assure you, held by lovely people who truly make you feel welcome. Next Saturday is School night, so shake out those uniforms and see you there!

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Credits:-

Wilma Jumpsuit from I M Collection

Jolene Necklace from Supernatural at the Designer Showcase till the end of the month

Millie earrings from Michan

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Sweet gloss lipstick from A R T E

Bonnie hair from Kuni

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty

Shot on location at Esoteric beach


Regular Events at Esoteric

Friday’s at 3pm SLT Max Kleene and then Rommie/Jayde do a party

Saturdays 1 – 3 SLT Jamie Oakley and Wynn Klaar host fun themed nights (Sat 24th back to school night)

Sundays 8 – 10am SLT Luca and Ame bring the music

Periodically they have tribute nights and so join the Facebook to keep up to date

 

 

 

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The dancing KPOP Coco Dolls

The dancing KPOP Coco Dolls

It’s 2.20 am and I’m just now crashing into my bed.

I’ve been working on the dance video for the new Alana cute Bento dances from MOVE Animations.

My interpretation of cute was to get those Coco dolls out of the closet and give it a bit of a kawaii feel.

You know when you just want to make it a little different?

Enjoy…,,

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Credits:-

Featuring the Alana cute bento poses from MOVE! Animations Cologne

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Coco Doll avatars from *Coco*

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Grrrrr get me out of here!

Grrrrr get me out of here!

I struggle a lot with unwanted invites/adds into Facebook groups or being added/tagged in Flickr and any other social media whatsoever. When it’s directly associated to porn.

If I wanted to join in some group to satiate some desire I have, wouldn’t that be my decision?

There seems to be a rise of this kind of thing particularly in the Flickr realms, but lately I seem to get the Facebook invites and frankly if I wanted to see porn, I’m quite capable of doing it myself thank you.

My most recent is now Instagram.

I woke up today to private messages from women (cough men) trying to get me interested in their “private” page.

Not so long ago I was tagged amongst other women into a Flickr page. Some pixel dude had added all his dick photos to it. No thank you. I’d rather admire a salami and then eat it!

Ive previously spoken in one of my Coffee with Isa about how I’ve been emailed dick pics from people watching my YouTube. I did say at the time I’d create a collage of it all.

Anyone else finding they are getting this?

What do you do about it?

Credits:-

Gretel dress with panties from::OOPS!:: at the Unik Event

Red spirit lipstick (omega version) from [GA.EG] at the August round EQUAL10 event

Latex thigh high boots from Grima

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Panny  hair from Truth

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara beauty

Shot on location at Superstition Valley
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Time for a break

Time for a break

I’ve waited days for today to arrive and 4pm to hit the clock on my screen.

I’m now officially free for 9 days to relax and catch up with some me time.

Quite an ironic statement given I work from home and it’s all me time.

We have a sudden summer coming back for the next few days and I’m going to be making the most of it.

There will be me, my sun cream and my body bits basking in the sun.

I don’t look like my avatar let’s be clear on that. I’m not a cartoon.

But I’ll try and pretend as I’m sat sun beating down on me that my chubby body is every bit as lithe as this picture.

Credits:-

Lovell booti shorts (various colours) from NamiiChu at the EQUAL10 Event

La Dolce Vita pose from Amitie Poses at the EQUAL10 Event

Tank top from Blueberry as part of the group gift

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Tropical eyeshadow from A R T E

Charlotte hair from Analog Dog

Sweet gloss lipstick from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Healing Chakra’s with Nature

Healing Chakra’s with Nature

Beverley is healing the Chakras with nature in today’s episode of Feel good Thursdays.

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Credits:-

Kenny Skin from RAONHAUSEN in vanilla tone now at the EQUAL10 Event

Iconic Top from Blueberry

Track pants are a free group gift available at Blueberry

Glossy Lipstick from A R T E

Refined eyebrows from A R T E

Arwen Eyeshadow from A R T E

Suffer well hair from Magika

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Genus baby bento head from GENUS

Shot on location at Whimberley

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