The Chair

The Chair

I’ve danced on many a chair and pole in Second Life. But seriously none like this!!

It’s no secret I’m very partial to anything Jonny from Paragon brings into Second Life, after all I work with him.

But, I do so with a passion for the quality of what I get to work with and this latest chair dance is pure sass!!

I’ve actually recorded 3 versions of this dance. One is this, the other is a different feel lighting and the third. Well that one is far more raunchier than I usually produce.

That one I will upload to Flickr because it certainly cannot go onto YouTube at all.

I’ll do that in the next few days. Then re link back in this blog. for now though you can have the tamer version. Enjoy……


Dance Credits:

Kayla chair dance from Paragon Dance Animations at the EQUAL10 Event

About Kayla Brenda

  • Professional dancer for Jason Derulo and Trey Songz
  • Heels instructor at Steezy Studio – Online Dance Class and the Playground L.A.
  • Creator of BodyLoveSeries

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Clothes credits:-

Juliet Lingerie from Cynful

Martini hair from Doux at the EQUAL10 Event

Baddie Lipstick from Bellucci

Prison Backdrop from Minimal at the EQUAL10 Event

HDPRO Majer soft head from CATWA

Gemma from Magika

Eline skin from AMARA

Reflectice eyes from Amara

Lara mesh body Maitreya

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A real time moment

A real time moment

I have those moments where I step away from the virtual and live in the reality. It’s a given.

It’s the early hours of Boxing Day as I write this and I’m contemplating the past 48 hours and how different they have felt.

With the craziness of life at the moment, I’ve had my fair share of low points recently. I’ve struggled with how I was feeling about parts of my life and what we are all going through.

One thing I can tell you is I miss humans a lot. Touching and hugging and just being near them. I believe we take the simplicity of human connection for granted until we suddenly find we are without it.

I miss “normal” life. Being free to walk amongst humans, brushing past them in the street and smelling their fragrances and trying to guess the make.

I miss walking in stores and people watching and seeing eyes meet and smiles. Real smiles unhidden by masks.

I missed my usual Christmas this year. But I made the best of it as best I could. I enjoyed me time and watched lots of films and had phone conversations.

I missed hugging my children and spending hours with them. Instead we socially distanced meet up, no hugging because there’s more to think about. Not just what I miss or feel.

That’s what I take away this Christmas. That there’s more to think of than just what we expect, want and had gotten used to. Doing things differently is just the way it is right now and it’s ok.

Although I feel alone right now, I also feel lucky. Because out there are my family and friends. My real and virtually made friends.

I appreciate all who checked in on me.

It’s just a moment in time, a blip. Life will move forward and we will learn something new. We will adapt and make changes.

Warm wishes and let’s look forward to the new year. There’s so much more to come.

Harriet Reports

Harriet Reports

Trying to record my voices in the lockdown is so hard when I’m not alone. Hence this post and video are done later than I anticipated.

I’m seriously going to have to consider a new regime to get things done. A rigid and less casual approach for the foreseeable future.

Ahh the joys of sharing space!!!

I’m guessing this is the reality for a lot of people right now as we find ourselves more boxed in these days.

Still, Harriet has some news to tell you. Harriet absolutely is returning back to location reporting because let’s face it. Virtual life is not in a lockdown!!

Today she is sponsored by Entice as part of their Saturday sale



Blinding lights skirt and top from Entice for the Saturday Sale

Sweet gloss lipstick  from A R T E

Forever hair from Truth

Glam eyeshadow from A R T E

Kimberley bento head from CATWA

Evie shape for the CATWA Kimberley head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Aline skin from Amara

Little Harriet is courtesy of Zooby as is her clothing available via the hud.

The dark of night

The dark of night

It’s nearly Halloween and I haven’t made a banger for this year. By banger I mean a story line with all my characters.

To be honest I wasn’t feeling it this year given all the stuff going on and in some ways I wanted Halloween eve to be different. So it will. It will be “normal” tomorrow.

This however is my Halloween for 2020, if you can understand the meaning behind it, I’ll give you a giant gold star!!!




Featuring the Michael Jackson dances from Paragon Dance Animations

Coco Doll Mannequin from Coco Doll Designs

Doll Sheep outfit from Coco Designs Outlet

Shot on location at Arranmore

Save a friend!

Save a friend!

So this is how I feel about COVID right now. Armed and ready to kick its backside from here to kingdom come.

This is also how I feel about the stupid people who care only about their own selves and disregard others affected by this very serious thing going on. I’ll certainly be ready to send you to the other side of my street with my ammunition of water spray. (Clearly I’m not a violent person, but I could be tempted to water spray you!)

Today I found out how someone close to a friend cannot see her mother in a old aged home. but what’s worse is that all in the home are not allowed out of their room to mix.

If people tell me that’s ok then really there are no hearts inside them.

It’s bad enough being separated from your loved ones but to stay in your room and not able to socially bubble with those in the very same home. That’s just purely cruel.

It’s cruel of all the ignorant people who can’t give up their social lives for a bit to get ahead of this.

It’s not great being less physically social , it’s not great not being able to go out and let your hair down etc etc. But seriously are all lives that shallow that people cannot think beyond themselves?

I follow all the social distancing, even more strongly than I probably need to. But I do that because I want to help stop it’s spread.

I don’t want to be part of the problem. I don’t want my children to experience it and I don’t want their children to either.

So I’m ready here, Captain Isa, with my force of pretend people at Cocoon ready to blast this thing away.

Join the revolution, stop the conspiracy theories, just let’s all stop thinking about our social media a bit and start thinking about our lives too and those around us. Do something positive today.

Save a friend.


Soaya Bodysit and jacket from Zenith at the EQUAL10 Event

HDPRO Majer soft head from CATWA

Lexi hair from Sintiklia

Eline skin from AMARA

Reflectice eyes from Amara

Suzy Lipstick (for Catwa HDPRO) from A R T E at the eBento

Catya bento head from CATWA

Machine gun pose from PolarBunny

My Shape

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Shot on location at Cocoon

Another new home

Another new home

Im like a moving butterfly, flying from leaf to leaf looking for my forever home.

Yep moved again!!

The beautiful place Rosie and I had is no more, since a nightclub opened on the other half of the region and basically shoved out scripted this and that and our lag went from perfect to lets walk in treacle. Nature of the beast when you share a sim or a region. You have no control of the out look beyond your own 4 lines.

Rosie had done a great job of the vram police and making sure that everything on the land meant there was no drain on the computer when we walked around etc.

In one week that changed and frankly that was it. Move.

So here I am again showing you a new place but also showing you the old place as a visit down memory lane as I hadnt really got around to the full show off. Clearly I am rambling again which I tend to do .

Funny thing SL is a great place for not feeling too sad when things like this happen as you just each time create your own fantasy and its like going home.



Nina dress and heels from Legendaire at the Designer Showcase

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Gloss Lipstick from A R T E

Charisma hair from Truth

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty


Walking the Green Mile

Walking the Green Mile

When they walk the Mile, it’s the walk to the inevitable.

There is no choice and once that path is set it’s towards the end.

Whatever reasons many have walked that path, the outcome is often very questionable given it’s the finality.

There have been many who have faced that finality that should not have. Innocent but found guilty.

The subject of the death penalty certainly is one that has many different reactions. There is no real wrong or right. But certainly when man takes the decision to kill another for justice, is he always right?

Sergio Delacruz has replicated this in Sansar. All I can say is wow!!!

It’s an amazing build and you certainly should check it out and you will understand the feeling you get.

Now the video….



Ranya Anime avatar (FREE) from VitaminC

Monkey…Im the only one who has him sorry.

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A quiet moment

A quiet moment

I’m having a bit of a hiatus in extreme blogging for a few days.

Also filming. I just require a break for a bit so I can ask myself a few all important questions about the meaning of life etc etc.

Not really. I just fancy some chilling time.

Earlier I connected up my streaming and went live on TWITCH from Sansar.

It wasn’t exciting to watch but I had to test to make sure it’s working. Tomorrow I’ll test going live on all platforms to see if I have the hang of it.

I’m not sure which crazy world I’ll go in but I’ll just spin the bottle and wherever it lands, that will be it.

There is a reason for this madness, which will become clear in July, as long as I get it right.

Other than that it is time for me to strip off and go under cover as Thelma and lay by the water.


Little falls pond set For Raindale July Decocrate

Sundwell Sunbed  from Raindale at the Cosmopolitan Event

Seashore Swimsuit at I M Collection

Soft Lashes from A R T E

Simone head from Lelutka

Lara mesh body from Maitreya

Natural lipgloss from A R T E 

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Isabelle skin  from  Amara Beauty

Vlogging stuff

Vlogging stuff

Most know I struggle with doing things the way others do. Because frankly that’s not me. I’m also a bit OCD in that respect.

Sure it would improve my views etc but eh I’d be selling myself down a river and not being true to my own creative self. After all whatever I do, ultimately is because I enjoy it.

Yes sure sometimes I sit and think I wish people noticed what I do and all that. But then I’m not really the type of person who ultimately wants to be in the crowd and be noticed. (Well only for the right reasons.)

But I ultimately do always want to be better at what I do. Don’t we all?

I’m more a quiet soul in many respects and actually value my handful of supporters who genuinely do engage the madness I write or speak via YouTube. Hence the main gift on my 2k subscribers list was so specifically geared toward acknowledging just that.

I am me and I prefer to move in my own direction. In saying that I realise that when doing character vlogs for events people just don’t pick up that where my characters are yakking that they are saying the outfits etc come from. So in order to acknowledge that I’ve decided to still include in my character videos but also do a couple of videos each month showcasing in the style I’m previously known for.

I will be doing this for each event on YouTube and we will see how it goes. I’m seriously not going to do let’s go shopping videos as previously said in one of my vlogs as I’d rather stick hot pokers in my eyes!

I mean it, I would rather.

So I’d be interested to know what you think of the following format and if that fills your boots with joy?



Kiki outfit from MIWAS at the EQUAL10 Event June

Ronda 6 scene from Ionic at the EQUAL10 Event

Charlotte hair from Analog Dog

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Sweet Gloss Lipstick from A R T E

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty

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In the kitchen hiding from Stupid!

In the kitchen hiding from Stupid!

Last night I was spending time with my flat mate for her 30th birthday.

She went into her 30th with a pandemic and a divided world. She at the age of 30 is asking me what is the point of living anymore.

I sit here and try and give my positive so much good etc etc etc.

Truth is, where the hell has it gone? Where are the things we are meant to look forward to?

I wrote a post on my rl and sl Facebook walls this morning. I don’t come to my Facebook to see such hatred and bullying . Name shaming etc etc. It’s divisive and is never going to solve the problems. In fact it’s fuel.

There will never be another Nelson Mandela or Martin Luther King again. Go back and read and educate yourselves because if you never learnt anything then, you won’t now.

I’m tired. People are tiring me. History doesn’t appear to have educated anybody at all. Not one bit. As I sit here from a mixed race background having lived in apartheid for part of my life. I sit here and frankly feel humans are the dumbest species on this planet.

The dumbest! It seems you can’t change stupid no matter what. Read and learn.

Remember in this life, United we stand, Divided we fall.

But for now I’m going to sit back and enjoy my view and pretend like my avatar, that stupid doesn’t exist.


Summer baby outfit from Entice for the Womans only hunt 9 – 30 June

Chiffon hair from Stealthic

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Gloss Lipstick from A R T E

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty