Contemplation

Good morning

So I’m sat here on my bus headed to work and after yesterday’s troller drama, You Tube have taken down that strike that some silly person attempted to make against my account.

It does go to show we need to stick up for ourselves.

Don’t be intimidated by individual or group troublemakers that invade what we do. Tackle them head on and fight our cause.

Well in saying that I’m not advocating a punch up in a back street alley. I’m saying don’t feel you can’t stand up for yourself when it comes to your social media.

You don’t have to be bullied and trolled. Report them. Raise awareness. Don’t allow the silly people to get away with it.

My situation with You Tube.Unfortunately You Tube have a bot system which reacts when someone raises a false claim. The bot system is automatic but once you appeal and report they do actually look further into it.

If you don’t bother and just accept what has happened then it stays. So always stand up for yourself if you get an issue.

And if you can’t, get someone to help you.

Have a lovely day.

DRESS

Credits :-

Anzu hair by Argrace

Liziah outfit from Enigma at the TWE12VE

The outfit consists of  dress, shoes and choker

Self reflection bento pose from Luanes World

40’s lipstick from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at La Vie

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Saturday night

I feel like singing that song Saturday Night by Whigfield.

But I will spare you this voice moment because frankly, you ever heard the cats in the garden?

That’s me.

Im singing this right now in RL and my son just walked past shaking his head.

I don’t think it was a nodding in a positive way.

I’m guessing the neighbours banging on the wall right now is not suggesting they love this song like I do?

My guilty pleasure.

Now for the outfit….

Video:-

Credits :-

Teodora dress from AdoreZ at the Designer Showcase

Charlotte hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at The Last Forever

Designer Showcase

The travel

Seriously anyone else like me a public transport person?

If you are then you know my pain right now.

We have no choice on public transport who invades our personal space when you are squeezed in like sardines.

So I’m currently pushed up against the side of the bus whilst the person next to me has made themselves entirely comfortable using my ample bosom as their elbow rest.

What’s even better is said person reeks of stale cigarettes and some other body odour I can’t quite place.

So what would you do in this situation?

My inner Liz wants to have an exorcist moment, but the sensible balance Liz is tolerating it.

Half hour to go……

Video:-

Credits :-

Honey Knit outfit from D E Boutique now at the Designer Showcase

Yonaga hair from Argrace

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at Devin sims

Designer Showcase

Dream with me

I believe I’m still asleep right now.

This is all just a dream this getting up and going to work malarkey.

I believe in a campaign for a four day working week and a 3 day weekend. Or maybe just the other way around?

Who decided on a 5 day week and got that wish. I want to meet this bright spark and have a conversation.

I want them to run me through this decision and how they reached it.

What did they consider in this thought process which lead to the majority of the work force wishing Friday would come.

It’s only Thursday and I’m watching the clock tick till Friday 4pm.

I will be out those doors like a stealth ninja, faster than you can say toodles.

Video:-

Credits:-

The studly is Jackson Redstar

Celeb Sweater from Bijou

Let me hold you pose from Luanes World

Meow! eyeshadow and Honey lips from A R T E  in the September Powder Pack

Fall tights from Pixicat

Combat boots from ::ROC::

Charlotte hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Coffee in Baskinta

Usually on my bus trip to work I’m chilled and earphones in ears listening to some music.

Today not quite so. Being far from chilled is how anyone who knows me may see me.

It started with a wonderful nights sleep to waking up to remember that I had fasting bloods and another ECG booked this morning. So no breakfast.

But half hour before I’m due to leave I get a phone call to say they have to cancel those tests and book them in for tomorrow due to the nurse who does the ECG going into minor surgery this morning.

So I’m rebooked for 11.20am tomorrow.

Again having to fast all night and wait till around lunch tomorrow to let anything pass my lips.

Unfortunately I’m a nauseous faster and as I sit here right now on the bus I frankly want to heave.

On top of that, I left my earphones at home!

That aside…….

Today’s coffee is slightly different in that although I’m still yakking away about anything and nothing. I’m also showing you this sim.

Feel free to turn the sound down if you wish, just admire this LEA 11 sim.

Video:-

Credits:-

Whiskey in the jar dress from Entice at the We ♥ RP Event

Ginny heels from *SOHOe SHOeS* at the Twe12ve Event

Donna hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at Baskinta due to open shortly to the public

Let me tell you…

Last night I spent some time in SL visiting different places.

This picture is on my sim so not one of the places I visited.

Talking to friends about relationships and such things as I travelled.

One common thread we all can agree on that we have experienced in this virtual way of life, is how hard we fall when we fall.

Online relationships are a beautiful thing in my opinion. The ability to get to really know someone before you may meet gives you something extra that maybe a meeting in a bar in RL wouldn’t.

Human beings are often very guarded creatures and we always hold something back, rightly or wrongly. But in a virtual world we often allow ourselves to really let go. Basically opening our core.

But… now here it comes.

When the relationship goes wrong, the impact that can have on you is immense.

You are like in a vacuum and that other person is the hose out. Or so you believe at the time.

I’ve experienced this, the total adoration of someone I don’t know, yet know. The hours of talking, the sharing of ideas both RL and virtually. Then the crash.

That crash feels more intense than anything you have ever experienced, the pain ten times more than that last RL relationship.

But why?

From my view I believe it’s because you mingle a reality and a fantasy together and it’s hard to destroy any fantasy. After all in life we hold on to our fantasies to see us through our difficult times.

But when our fantasy is devastated the impact it has on our real life person is often quite intense and devastating for some.

Remember that behind every avatar is a human being. A person with vulnerabilities, issues, feelings and RL.

Be kind and treat that person with the respect they deserve.

Leave your negative RL at the door and enjoy the fantasy.

But if you go to reality, do so with care and the knowledge that what you say and do can indeed impact that person.

Enjoy your day.

Credits:-

Lexi outfit from LaGeeny

Charlotte hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at Namaste Beach

Severed knuckles

So I set this pose on the table out in the rain and was all pleased with myself.

Rain pouring on my head but not a hair out of place.

Decidedly I amputated my fingers from the knuckles and took it well.

Note to self, when in doubt, hover!

It’s Friday today and as per usual I’m looking forward to attending work, only because in some hours it’s over with for the week.

I have a few plans for the weekend once 4pm hits.

The first is straight to my friends after work for a bite to eat and a good catch up.

She has not long had hip surgery and been left a little housebound the past few weeks.

She is up and walking but can’t drive her car at the moment, so a little limited on where she goes.

Tomorrow I have Mason most of the day as I’m on daytime babysitting duty.

To be honest it’s never a duty, let’s call it a play date.

Sunday I’m being eyelashed!

Yep those extension things that people get. My daughter does them when not with child and needs a model for her web page.

So, I shall be it.

I may share the outcome on Monday and you can go oooo aaaa lashes!

Hope you all wherever you are in this big wide world, have a truly great Friday and time spent with the people you care about over the weekend. Failing that, before a boozy night out I highly recommend plenty of water.

Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate!

Credits:-

Honey outfit from Enigma  at the Hashtag Event from September 17th

Charlotte hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley