What you make of it

What you make of it

If only when I slipped on a bikini this stared back at me through the mirror. If only!

But no sadly it really does not.

I knew I’d move south as I got older. I just didn’t think my boobs would get there first!

Seriously the race was competitive and they won with a lead.

Do you ever look at your avatar and stare at him or her lovingly and just think wow?

I do most days. Most days I sit back and think how wonderful it is to pretend that I am her and she is me.

Reminds me back when I used to play with my dollies when I was younger, the difference is changing clothes is a lot easier than over the plastic body parts.

I love Second Life. It’s full of weird and wonderful people . Me being one of them.

None of us are RL twins of our avatars. But who cares. Our world is magical and we are are as we choose to be.

Last week I was a Chimpanzee and a Dinosaur.

Today I’m a sassy babe laying in my bikini and pretending I’m on holiday.

Actually I am on holiday in reality, I’m just not “on holiday”. Corona prevents that, but I plan to make the best of it and still have a good time.

Because after all. Time is what you make of it.


Ballerina Short mesh nails fromCazimi at theDesigner showcase round starting 5th April

No Subject hair from no.match

Bikini from Kaithleens

Sereia jewellery (a gift  gacha from a friend) from Real Evil Industries

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Gloss Lipstick from A R T E

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty

Shot on location at Infused Raindrop Beach

How many?

How many?

How many hours are there in one day?

I’ve decided that there are absolutely not enough!

I’ve had so much to do in both worlds and so little time that I had to sit and really think how I needed to plan my time last night.

The best way to do that is a seriously decadent hot chocolate, box chocolates, sofa and a mushy cheap film on DVD.

I achieved nothing but total relaxation and probably another fat layer storage for the winter.

Then filmed this video of this gorgeous ensemble.




Credits :-

Rustic sweater and earmuffs from  :::KC::: available at the Designer Showcase

Jeweled Tights  from [ZE] available at the Designer Showcase

Simone collar from .: RealEvil Industries :.

Catya Bento mesh head and Animated eyes from CATWA

IsaB face and body shape from LizBitz

Christy Dark skin from Lara Hurley

Edith hair from Mina



Oh really?

This morning my son walked out the door and said to me, “I’ll be home at 6 so can you have dinner ready as I’m going out early?”

Now many would say how harsh I must be as a mum to have said to him “seriously, you have hands, use them”. But when you know my son is going to be 27 next week then you will understand my exasperation .

I remember leaving home at 18 and  fending for myself all those years ago. Today however its so hard for young people to get that first mortgage and even that first rent payment going. But seriously, since when cant they cook their own dinner?  ha ha

I enlightened him  on his skill set this morning and he agreed that perhaps he was being a little expectational  (my new word I made up ) and taking the micky!

So now, he not only has to cook his own dinner this evening, he will be cooking mine!

Power to the  mothers!!!!!



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Credits  :-

Aylin outfit  available from LaGeeny Fashion The outfit act6ually comes in a number of colour choices but today I am showing you the pink.

Karlie hair is from Truth

Destiny mesh head and animated eyes from CATWA

Lara mesh body from Maitreya

Christy dark skin from Lara Hurley

Zara body shape from Strawberry Singh

Ice Queen rings are from .: RealEvil Industries :.



My garden of Eden

My garden of Eden

Ok so the scene is wrong. Sunglasses and short skirts in the snow.

Well you know what, in a virtual world you can experience most things you wouldn’t dream of doing in the real world. So let me enjoy my 10 minutes of sunshine in the snow.

Actually as said previously, I cant wait for it to snow and in that vein I have been visiting all the snow sims lately with my build up of excitement to pleading with mother nature to send some to the South East of England.

These photos are actually taken in my back garden  because I decided yesterday to whip out my inventory and get ready for a few months of winter. I haven’t finished yet by any means because frankly it looks like a kid had taken a crayon to the backyard. But once its done I will of course share that with you. For now I’m going to pretend that rolling in that white stuff isn’t cold and that dreams come true.



Credits :-

“Eden” outfit exclusively available at the Designer Showcase by {Pretty Things}

“Hippie” female poses from BAXE available at the Designer Showcase

“Glossy” lips from Rudecats and available at the Black Friday event The event starts 20th November  and closes 25th Nov ember , from 20th there will be discounts of 30% but on the 25th 50%.

“Yuliya” blonde hair is from Mina

“Top Gun Oddity” sunglasses were a free gift from A&D

“Simone” bow collar  and “Ice Queen rings” from .: RealEvil Industries :.

“Destiny” mesh head from CATWA

“Lara” mesh body from Maitreya

“Christy” dark skin from Larah Hurley



Not much of a post today as I’m feeling pretty unwell. Unfortunately sore throat has got worse and now it’s that sicky feeling. So writing this laying down in bed, because I can.

Lately every day I wake up I am getting email alerts from some low lives out there who are posting pretty unkind comments to my you tube channel.

Of course it’s hurtful, I’m a human being after all and it does knock a confidence to what I do. 

However. One thing I have noted is that the people who are doing it and being quite derogatory  about SL and me, themselves come from SL!

So go figure on that one! I’m screen shoting them and of course my comments wall is by approval only. 

I may just name and shame those idiots because never leave me with a screen capture camera when being abused.

There is a great feature on you tube where you can simply report abusive behaviour. Seems I’m having to use it each day.

My channel is accessed not just by adults but also young children who browse the net. So sexually derogatory comments are not going to be allowed nor is the trolling behaviour. None of that is the message that should be going out to people at all. 

Adults who do this are I feel people who have clearly something missing from their lives. I call it a brain cell. Or maybe a few brain cells.

But anyhow to the fashion. Got to love this outfit!!!!!!!



Credits :-

“Amanda” outfit from LsR is available at The Designer Showcase

“Deja” hair is a VIP group gift from Truth

“Destiny” mesh head and Animated eyes from CATWA

“Lara” mesh body from Maitreya

“Christy” dark skin from Lara Hurley

“Ice Queen” rings from .: RealEvil Industries :.

“Zara” body shape from Strawberry Singh

Photo taken on location at Templemore

Bad cook

Seriously I need a cook some days.

Only I could burn a boiled egg!!!

Yes you read that correctly. I wanted soldiers for breakfast (soft boiled egg  and toast) and rather than soft boiled I kind of forgot the eggs on the stove and they turned into something you could bounce off a wall. The place stinks!!!
Actually it’s kind of ideal for when the trick or treaters come. The methane type of smell from the eggs should send them running up the road in fright. But I need to get rid of that smell now as my family are on their way over.

In the meantime this little dress is ideal for that night out thriller style.

Video below



Credits :-

“Thriller” dress from Entice

Kinky cuffs and arm bands from Promagic

“Izumi” hair from Argrace

“Simone” bow choker from .: RealEvil Industries :.

“Steking” ears from [MANDALA]

“Destiny” head  and Animated eyes from CATWA

“Christy” dark skin from Lara Hurley

“Lara” mesh body from Maitreya




Seriously is apparently here!

I’m on s bus headed to the hairdressers to go and have something totally radical done. Watch this space, or maybe don’t just in case it all goes horribly wrong.

My pixelated me however changes her hair every day and her clothes. Today it’s something for that in between warm and cool. Shorts with tights!!!!!!!!Video down below



“Autumn Serenade” shorts, jumper and tights are all available from Fifty 5 Thursday at Entice

“Jade” hair is from MINA

“Destiny” mesh head and animated eyes available separately from CATWA

“Lara” mesh body from Maitreya

“Christy” dark skin from Lara Hurley

“Ice Queen” rings from .: RealEvil Industries :.

“Martens” boots from ::ROC::


Breakfast tea anyone?

Ok this morning I require far more than a cup of tea to set me up for the day.  I’m just that little weary and tired and could do with another hour or two or three or four in bed.

My own fault as I stayed up late after coming home after a meal with some friends.

However I look incredibly fresh and alert in this photo and I’ll go with that.

The cafe dining set I have from Raindale is way cute and I have set it beside the windows so the morning sun beams on me. Perfect.








Credits :-

“Carrie” jacket with top and “Nicole” leggings are both from Le Fashion Whore and both have huds which give you a number of choices of pattern for the top  and colour combinations for all items. Both fatpackes are currently $199 for a limited time inworld.

“Minato” hair is from Argrace and is hud controlled and a free group join gift

“Soturi” boots from .:LAVAROCK CREATIONS:. Are a free group gift.

“Christy” dark skin from Lara Hurley

“Destiny” mesh head and CATWA animated eyes from CATWA

“Lara” mesh body from Maitreya

“Ice Queen” rings from .: RealEvil Industries :.

“T-O2” tattoo from Tattoo Mania as an exclusive at the Haus of Swag Fair

“Café” set from Raindale



Breaking news….

 Wow is all I can say. 

I spoke to someone last night that I never expected to ever speak to again after I lost my original accounts.

Small world SL when you are out shopping and bump into an old friend at the hair store.

I won’t go into detail but he was originally who I blamed for the mess of my SL accounts. I can hand on heart say I believe it wasn’t him and seriously I’m really happy about that and really happy to have a good friend back.

That’s today’s news, now for the video


Credits :-

“Bon Bon” Jacket, halter top  and pants are all available at “Entice” – 55 Thursday October 20 – 27th so be quick!!!

“Jessie” handbag from Le Fashion Whore

“Cagliari” wedges from -KC- Shoes & Apparel

“Destiny” mesh head and Animated CATWA eyes from CATWA

“Lara” mesh body from Maitreya

“Ice Queens” rings from .: RealEvil Industries :.

“Zara” body shape from Strawberry Singh


I feel Witty

No pun intended. But I love the name of this romper as it’s a feel good kind of tag.

I’ve only just woken up and no I’m not on the bus!

I haven’t been for over 4 weeks now as been home from work on sick leave. I shall be returning on the 1st and with a new vigour to sort out a few issues, namely that major data protection breach they did and let’s see if that apology comes forward from them considering they were found guilty.

But, anyhow aside from that I need this romper in RL as it is both classy and has that attitude of I’m here!

Video as below


Credits :-

“Witty Romper” by ArisAris/B&W this is hud controlled and most gorgeous textures and on marketplace at the moment for $99 for limited time only.

“Edith” hair by Mina

“Steking” ears by [MANDALA]

“Destiny2 mesh head and mesh eyes from CATWA

“Lara” mesh body from Maitreya

“Christy” dark skin from Lara Hurley

“Simone Bow” collar from .: RealEvil Industries :.

“Ice Queen” rings from .: RealEvil Industries :.

“Zara” body shape by Strawberry Singh