Countdown till Christmas

Countdown till Christmas

Happy Tuesday one and all from a rather exhausted woman in reality. I think my body and mind need the holidays to arrive pronto.

I’m so tired that once I let myself relax finally I know I’ll be asleep for days. The cat, have I mentioned the cat!! Bondi my ball of fluff, love of my life. His fault.

Every single night he is like a clock. Pounces into my chest to let me know he is awake and ready to play. Honestly he is trying to murder me I am sure!

The perfect crime, who would suspect the beautiful blue eyed handsome pussy cat?

Today’s pic is a freebie top from Entice from their Christmas calendar. Deets below.

Credits :-

Never Surrender top from Entice free for group members and for non group members here for $25L

You can obtain the items for $50L after the calendar day y here

Fall tights from Pixicat

Fiona earrings and choker from Livia at the Designer Showcase

HDPRO Majer soft head from CATWA

Euphoria Hair from Truth

Eline skin from AMARA

Reflectice eyes from Amara

Suzy Lipstick (for Catwa HDPRO) from A R T E at the eBento

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Lara mesh body Maitreya

I know what you did last night

I know what you did last night

Last night I had a truly lovely night with friends. My bottle of gin and laughter and just doing something I haven’t done in ages.

This year has been such a challenge and I’ve missed human contact and touch incredibly. Just laughing and enjoying time.

Of course it was very socially distanced before you ask as we sat in a hot tub with our drinks to hand.

Because it was in a virtual world we could do this.

Today I wake up late with a sleepy smile on my face.

Never underestimate the power of friends and making things happen in a virtual world.

Next the Christmas meal plan for all my friends before Christmas. I best start baking!!!

Then this dress!!!

Credits:-

Mione Gown from {Le’La} at the Designer Showcase from 5th December

Fiona earrings and choker from Livia at the Designer Showcase

HDPRO Majer soft head from CATWA

Kitten Hair from Truth

Eline skin from AMARA

Reflectice eyes from Amara

Suzy Lipstick (for Catwa HDPRO) from A R T E at the eBento

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Shot on location at Backdrop City

Its the 9th today

Its the 9th today

I am just giving you a calendar update because im quite helpful like that. Also to let you know that this is todays advent calendar goodie from Entice. So pop on over as freebies are a dream arent they.

I do love a freebie and Christmas goodies are the best. Sadly the only place we get them is in our virtual lives because reality is not so kind.

If we are honest, reality puts the prices up then lowers them back down again and we are deluded into the false premise we nabbed ourselves a bargain.

Enjoy the virtual free gifts and make sure in reality you check their “discounts”.

Outfit from Entice and jewellery Designer Showcase. Details below.

Credits :-

Just a girl shirt and panties from Entice free for group members and for non group members here for $25L

You can obtain the items for $50L after the calendar day y here

Fiona earrings and choker from Livia at the Designer Showcase

HDPRO Majer soft head from CATWA

Euphoria Hair from Truth

Eline skin from AMARA

Reflectice eyes from Amara

Suzy Lipstick (for Catwa HDPRO) from A R T E at the eBento

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Lara mesh body Maitreya

These nails I cannot see

These nails I cannot see

I seriously kid you not when I say I’ve spent a good part of my day with blurred vision which meant I really couldn’t see much.

I had some eye tests in the morning and had that stuff put into my eyes that stings like hell and then makes you struggle to focus. Oh and you feel like a vampire as the daylight is so strong you want to run back inside. That’s been me.

I logged in to my work after and my god that was just the worst struggle ever.

I literally had my computer screen right in front of my face so I could try and see. Logged off in the end as there was no point.

Had a nap and now way better.

Can I say, it gave me an indication of what it must be like to lose your sight, or rather be struggling to see.

It’s not nice or easy and frankly I’m very grateful I have the ability to see. To go through life seeing but not seeing must be incredibly difficult for anyone in that position. So yes sight and sound I value above everything in my abilities. Oh and my voice too.

I get my results in about 1-2 weeks. So yeah. That was my day.

It’s nearly 7 pm here in the UK and I’m back to normal. Shall continue to chill and tomorrow it’s back to work, repeat.

Check out my whole look and I’m sure you will agree I need to be seen.

Credits:-

Rapsodia gown from LB at the Designer Showcase

Skie jewellery (necklace and earrings) from Moondance Boutiqueat the Designer Showcase

Reema Bento nails from Liviaat the Designer Showcase

Blue Gem eyes from A R T E at the UniK

Delilah  from Sintiklia

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Oline Lipstick from A R T E

Glam On eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty

Can you believe it!

Can you believe it!

Well nothing surprises me these days.

But today!

Today is my day off and the sun shines!!!!

I’m now sunburnt after sitting outside earlier today. To be fair, I never noticed the sun feeling that warm as I was covered by clouds. But my red face frankly says it all.

On another note. Who is on Tik Tok? Seriously I’ve suddenly gone made in it. Why on Earth didn’t I really get into it ages ago. Omg I have been laughing so much and become addicted!

So I’ve even started making some. RL, and some pixel ones.

I could be considered daft. But my god it’s cheered me up no end to just be silly and know that I’m not alone in the silly. Seriously if you want to find something to watch that’s frivolous. Watch Tik Tok videos.

On another note this gorgeous dress is at the Designer Showcase now till the 30th. It has a hud, so a great reason to go check it out.

Credits:-

Monrocie Dress (with hud) from Artizana at the Designer Showcase (few days left hurry)

Ballerina Bento nails from Livia at the Designer Showcase

Daytona hair from Analog Dog

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Gloss Lipstick from A R T E

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty

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Eat my fingers

Eat my fingers

This was me earlier today, minus the posh frock and maybe  not a gelato in my hand but more a sandwich.  I was literally near eating my fingers!

I had to have fasting blood tests this morning and seriously I am an idiot. I accepted an appointment at 10:50  without considering  how long that would mean no cups of tea and no breakfast!!! By 10:50am in the morning usually  I have already had a banana, bowl of porridge and two cups of tea and and…Ok maybe I exaggerate on the ands.

Suffice to say it put me in a weird mood all day because my routine shifted.

I tell you as I get older I am becoming one of “those” people, the ones who live by routine.  OMG have I lost spontaneity?

Anyhow all over the news is Meghan and Harry. Wow some people think their opinions are so important. Fact  it is 2020 and if they want to strike out on their own, to raise a happy family and live a life of less chaos.  Let them.

Life is too short to not do what makes you happy and I wholeheartedly think go find happiness.  Amazing how many opinions I’m seeing on the subject blaming the woman for controlling the man into finding happiness. Harry doesn’t strike me as someone who is forced to do anything. They’re a married couple and both want what’s best for each other.

Go fly and be free!

Credits:-

Swan gown from WILD at the Designer showcase. Comes with the pearls accessories and different colour swatches

Chiara rings set from Livia at the Designer Showcase

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Sweet gloss Lipstick from A R T E

Tropical eyeshadow from A R T E

Kitsuno hair from Argrace

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty

Hacienda Backdrop from Minimal

Gelato Pose fromAmitie

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Lets do House

Lets do House

I could have logged in as one of my male dudes to do this male bento dance but thought what the hell.

I actually don’t believe in what’s best for men or women.

I believe you can be whatever you want to be and dress however you want to dress, love whoever you want and most of all, dance whatever sex you want.

Video:-

Credits:-

Closer outfit from American Bazaar at the June round of Designer Showcase

Zarina bento nails from Livia at the June round of Designer Showcase

No Less hair from no.match

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Sweet gloss  lipstick from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara beauty

Shot on location at BackDrop City

Featuring the Male Bento Dances Dennis Vol 3 from MOVE! Animations Cologne

Flowers

Flowers

Spring is in the air and flowers on my balcony are blooming already.

Tell me why am I in reality wearing a coat on this bus with central heating?

I’m plainly a twit.

I can’t blame my hotness on menopause because frankly it’s my own fault on this occasion.

Happy midweek.

There are two days left to grab the dress, necklace, nails and other bits from Designer Showcase.

Credits:-

Siren Mini dress from TO.KISKIat the Designer Showcase

Lark bento nails from Livia at the Designer Showcase

Harmony necklace from Moondance Boutique at the Designer Showcase

Bento modelling pose from SEmotion at the EQUAL10 Event

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Tropical eyeshadow from A R T E

Oline lipstick from A R T E

Dawn hair from Stealthic at the Kustom9

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty

Interesting news

Interesting news

I wanted to share some interesting news.

I belong to a few voice sites as a voice actor and frankly have never received requests through them and anything I have ever done has been through direct contact.

Over the weekend I was sent an invitation to audition for a radio advert.

So what you may say. Well here’s the irony they were looking for a specific Australian accent.

I am Australian yes, but live in the United Kingdom. I’m sure my Aussie accent has dissipated somewhat.

So basically the advert is to do with financial solutions. I am among 20 who were invited ( and no I haven’t heard yet).

Here is the irony in this tale.

It’s an Australian company!!

If I do get chosen, that would be incredibly ironic and of course exciting to me.

I must now do my nails.

Credits:-

Siren dress from [Sexy Princess] at the Designer Showcase

Nails showcase pose from Image Essentials at the Designer Showcase

Atlanta rings fromKlungers at the Designer Showcase

Lark Bento nails from Livia at the Designer Showcase

Apollonia necklace and bracelet from EMPYREAN FORGE

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Tropical eyeshadow from A R T E

Sweet gloss lipstick from A R T E

Dawn hair from Stealthic at the Kustom9

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty

This day

This day

The picture doesn’t give away my story. So I’ll tell you about it.

I’m sat on the bus headed home and part of me is smiling and the other part is a little in disbelief.

Today I had a meeting and instead of walking out feeling how I thought I might. The outcome was far different.

You see weeks ago, and I do mean weeks I made the decision to apply for flexible working and to look at working from home.

It was rejected and my heart sunk.

You see I applied because my condition seems to be getting worse and not any better.

The slog to work on the bus then the walk causes me intense pain and has done quite a while. I tend not to complain because I accepted this was my lot. But add that to fog periods and exhaustion I realised. Something has to change.

You see I don’t just have Fibromyalgia. I wish it was as simple as that. I say that with jest as there is nothing simple about it.

I have Stenosis in my spine. Currently around two sections of my spine. It was found in 2014 and has been getting worse.

It has the potential to lead to very serious issues for me and I’m a little head in sand but pulling it out fast now.

I’m seeing a consultant on 23rd April who is going to look at what’s going on etc.

So working from home made sense to me as it would cut out the 1.5 hour trek to work and home again and the pain I experience as the walk from the bus is seeming to get longer and longer.

So today I had an appeal meeting and it’s been granted under a trial.

So I’m both happy and in disbelief right now.

The benefits for me about my life balance will be amazing.

Credits:-

Romina red outfit from **AnaSTyle’s** at the Designer Showcase

Atlanta rings fromKlungers at the Designer Showcase

Lark Bento nails from Livia at the Designer Showcase

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Tropical eyeshadow from A R T E

Sweet gloss lipstick from A R T E

Flora  hair from Kuni at the EQUAL10 Event

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty