Ittty bitty isn’t it

Need I say more!

Itty bitty ha ha

Clearly a non You Tube moment because well…

It’s Saturday and man I’m glad it is. This week has been the week from hell and beyond.

The usual clique culture that makes you question why people behave in this gang type of culture.

I came into work after being out of the office on training for a week. Discovered that one lady had left. I know why she left.

She found the isolation and singling out by the cliques hard to deal with and so had gone. She just didn’t come back.

But since then, they’re still doing it. Still gossiping about her and still bullying even though she isn’t present any longer.

I do wonder when cliques get together, do they ever stop and think about the mental damage they do to the person they single out?

I’m guessing no one stops to consider that.

I’ve never liked cliques and never been part of any.

I like to make my own mind up and not be driven by the views of others.

I just wish more people would be less led and more independent of influence.

Maybe there would be less bullying in the world and less people who feel alone and isolated. Who knows.

Suffice to say it has affected my week because you can’t win against those types of bullies because as a pack they don’t hear or see sense. Until it happens to them.

I’m one of the people amongst a few the clique likes to affect. The only difference with me is, I am never driven out by anyone and in fact often stand my ground despite the anguish it causes me, just to prove that point.

What goes around, comes around. And ladies, it’s certainly coming around….

If you are subject to bullies you can find help

Here and Here

 

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Nightmare dress from ::OOPS:: at the XXX Event

Run the world hair from Exile

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at Luanes World

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Contemplation

Good morning

So I’m sat here on my bus headed to work and after yesterday’s troller drama, You Tube have taken down that strike that some silly person attempted to make against my account.

It does go to show we need to stick up for ourselves.

Don’t be intimidated by individual or group troublemakers that invade what we do. Tackle them head on and fight our cause.

Well in saying that I’m not advocating a punch up in a back street alley. I’m saying don’t feel you can’t stand up for yourself when it comes to your social media.

You don’t have to be bullied and trolled. Report them. Raise awareness. Don’t allow the silly people to get away with it.

My situation with You Tube.Unfortunately You Tube have a bot system which reacts when someone raises a false claim. The bot system is automatic but once you appeal and report they do actually look further into it.

If you don’t bother and just accept what has happened then it stays. So always stand up for yourself if you get an issue.

And if you can’t, get someone to help you.

Have a lovely day.

DRESS

Credits :-

Anzu hair by Argrace

Liziah outfit from Enigma at the TWE12VE

The outfit consists of  dress, shoes and choker

Self reflection bento pose from Luanes World

40’s lipstick from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at La Vie

Décor Jazz

Yesterday I arrived home from work basically in tears.

Office bullies are my greatest despise.

They come in all shapes and guises and you least expect it when it happens to you.

I didn’t expect to overhear the discussions whispered at high volume or notice the interrogation of my work by someone who is famously and I mean famously incompetent. But I did.

It hurt.

You see two of the people involved both are highly unprofessional women who have major flaws in the workplace.

One for being basically paid a high wage and not doing her job properly for the last 5 years and the other for her poor behaviour in the office regarding her colleagues and the way she can treat them. Add to that open gossip about other team members in an open plan office.

Back to the first women. She has been protected from disciplinary action from two line manages because of her friendship with the grandparent manager.

If she hadn’t had that protection she would have been out of a job at the very least 3 years ago.

The other is simply great at her actress skills when line management are about.

So yesterday I was in the fire line for their toxic collaboration. It felt awful and today I’m unsure how I feel.

Suffice to say I am not one to tolerate being bullied. That is why I became a union rep in the first place.

Bullies have no right to be in any workplace, school or social environment.

So anyhow I went home and decided to immerse myself in something else.

Another attempt at decor.

Thank you to Raindale for letting me use your land to film.

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Credits:-

Otterbury Platform from Raindale at the Décor Circle at Tres Chic

Kenward House and Welcome post, the fall edition from Raindale at the Spoonful of Sugar Festival

Oak tree and wild grass from Little Branch

Wild lavender potted plant from Dutchie

Field grass pampas (surrounding house) from Hayabusa Design

Woodhurst dining set from Raindale

Summer garden hanging plants from {what next}