The bite

Well my bite is not as bad really. Yesterday I had a huge day helping someone and frankly it was a long haul day.

When you sit with someone you have helped for 4 months and you finally get to hear the other sides very practised lies then present them with clear written evidence which totally blows their lies. It’s a good feeling.

I cannot bear liars.

One of my huge red lights is a liar. Especially someone who lies in order to discredit someone to hide their own behaviour. Even worse when the liar is a manager.

Managers get paid far more than subordinate staff to do their roles. They’re paid to lead and set example and manage.

But often you find the manager will have some flaw as do most people. We all have flaws.

A huge flaw is trusting the wrong people and then sharing your wrong doings in text messages and thinking it won’t be shared.

Well it was and yesterday I saw pale turn to beetroot in less than a minute as I read out the offending text.

So I’m thinking today someone may have some explaining to do.

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Leather set outfit from ::OOPS:: at the XXX Event

War paint from A R T E

Luna hair from Mina

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin

Shot on location at Prehistorica

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Take a break

A friend of mine suggested yesterday about wanting to take a break.

Funnily it’s not something that ever really dominates my mind because on the whole I feel if you are happyish with your lot then you don’t need a break but more so desire a change of scene.

Needing a break always suggests to me, just make a complete change as what you’re in isn’t working for you.

I do desire a change in scene. I’m still trying to work out which scene it is I want.

My mind has many scenes playing and it’s like a lotto ball whizzing around trying to decide where it will stop.

For today it’s the same old scene, on the bus headed to work.

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Boo dress from ::OOPS!::

Jenkins block boots from Heels at the Designer Showcase

Tinsley hair from Truth Hair

Tropical eyeshadow and lipstick from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Kitchen is from the January Death Row Designs Shadow Box

Waiting for a mate!

Do you remember that video that went viral a few years back? Just waiting for a mate?

Lord I laugh just now thinking about it as I sit here on the bus.

After this blog post I’m going to search for it and watch it all over again.

Last night I went for a meal at a friends house after work. Lovely meal, but during it I was struck by the most excruciating stomach pain which I thought I may end up in hospital over as it came in waves till the early hours of this morning. I eventually fell asleep and woke this morning, back to my normal.

Oddest episode and the only description to the type of pain I can give is that it felt like labour pain. My blood pressure has shot back up again so I’m guessing my body didn’t like that.

Funny things human bodies. But even funnier things are our pets.

Both my cats wouldn’t leave me alone last night and were glued to my side all night long. They seem to sense things aren’t ok and almost do their version of looking after me.

At least I’m pretty sure now that the saying “found eaten by her cats” is probably likely! Ha ha ha

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Cheri black dress from ***GIULIADESIGN*** at Designer Showcase

Dead Rudolph horns from ::OOPS::

What truly matters pose from Luanes World

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Ittty bitty isn’t it

Need I say more!

Itty bitty ha ha

Clearly a non You Tube moment because well…

It’s Saturday and man I’m glad it is. This week has been the week from hell and beyond.

The usual clique culture that makes you question why people behave in this gang type of culture.

I came into work after being out of the office on training for a week. Discovered that one lady had left. I know why she left.

She found the isolation and singling out by the cliques hard to deal with and so had gone. She just didn’t come back.

But since then, they’re still doing it. Still gossiping about her and still bullying even though she isn’t present any longer.

I do wonder when cliques get together, do they ever stop and think about the mental damage they do to the person they single out?

I’m guessing no one stops to consider that.

I’ve never liked cliques and never been part of any.

I like to make my own mind up and not be driven by the views of others.

I just wish more people would be less led and more independent of influence.

Maybe there would be less bullying in the world and less people who feel alone and isolated. Who knows.

Suffice to say it has affected my week because you can’t win against those types of bullies because as a pack they don’t hear or see sense. Until it happens to them.

I’m one of the people amongst a few the clique likes to affect. The only difference with me is, I am never driven out by anyone and in fact often stand my ground despite the anguish it causes me, just to prove that point.

What goes around, comes around. And ladies, it’s certainly coming around….

If you are subject to bullies you can find help

Here and Here

 

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Nightmare dress from ::OOPS:: at the XXX Event

Run the world hair from Exile

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at Luanes World

Shhhh don’t tell anyone

So today I have time on my hands. I took a leave day to catch up with myself. Well actually to take a break. Go figure as tomorrow is the weekend.

The thing is I am babysitting all day tomorrow and then Sunday have guests. So that me time I like to enjoy may not be as much as I would like. I meant the alone with my own thoughts time.

So today an ideal opportunity to have a cheeky leave day  and shhhh don’t tell anyone I’m home!!!

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Joy eyeliner from A R T E at the Applique

Nita boot from Lindy at the Designer Showcase

Jessie outfit from ::OOPS:: now at the Mad Circus Event

Arianna hair from enVOGUE

Hair in video is Fallen from Besom

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

The everlasting

Sleep has not quite been my friend so I may as well just write my blog in the hope that eventually I may bore myself back into la la land.

It’s the weekend and I’m not sure I’ve seen it quite yet as been so busy. My Saturdays are babysitting duties for most of the day and then of course squeeze in the washing and cleaning chores in between.

I also somehow managed to get some diatribe with You Tube because they’re an automated service.

Honestly if you want things looked at in any rush humans are the only way to go.

Reminds me of that incident a year ago that never got resolved till a human finally stepped in.

Funnily another blogger asked me could the two be related to one person. I never thought of that, but if it is then I have to say how sad it would be that someone sat there for a year planning my strike. So no I don’t believe that is likely.

Companies are beginning to forget their own processes of success. ie interaction and customer service.

So while I wait for the robots to pass to the humans you will still find my videos as below.

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Unholly dress from OOPS at the Nightmare Event

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at No Salvation gothic cathedral

I have the look

I’ve had the look for the past few weeks .

Today I haven’t much to say. Well I do. But will save it for later because in RL I’m feeling a little sick right now as have tests later this morning and I am not allowed to eat or have my much needed morning cup of tea.

Make up in SL is like make up in RL. Weirdly you could be having the worst day and feeling meh. Pop on some lippy and you suddenly feel way better.

I’ve never understood why but during my life the simple fact when I’m feeling rubbish about myself the brushing of hair and popping on the lippy suddenly makes me feel 100% better.

So today I’m just going to show you ARTE’s contribution in the September PowderPack. The dress I’m wearing is from ::Oops::.

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Honey Lips, Meow Shadow and Myst eyes from A R T E in the September Powderpack

Creepy dress from ::OOPS::

Cleo hair from /Wasabi Pills/

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley