Happy new year Everyone

Happy new year Everyone

So another year ends and we say goodbye to all the old and go into welcoming the new.

Or rather an anticipation for something new and a list of resolutions we set ourselves and by month 3 already fail in.

Why do we do this?

Save it all up for one night and promise ourselves changes we know deep down that if we truly meant them, we would be already on our way to achieving them?

This year I have zero intention of resolution making. I still have the past 25 years of those I’m still yet to achieve. So I may as well reverse and start from that point.

Or I just accept what is and rather than set myself these targets, just walk into the new year and grab it by the balls.

I can say I have a few projects coming up in 2020 which I’m excited about and that is something I look forward to sharing as the year evolves. But not just yet.

I prefer to share after the fact. Not before.

One reflection I have as I sit here tapping on my phone is that I do want to move towards live-streaming . But I’m not sure I want to do virtual live streaming.

There’s other projects in my head that I want to try out separate to virtual and I may yet.

I’m also still seeking advice on supporting people struggling with social media trolling.

That is a topic I spoke about and I’m very passionate about. But it needs to be done properly with all the safety mechanisms in place for confidentiality as well as bringing people on board who are trained.

This project may be wider than SL so hence I’m being very careful about how it’s done. But watch this space!

One major plan I do have in 2020 is that I have decided after nearly 11 years of caring and supporting people in the work place. It’s time for me to step back and allow myself to experience life with a little less pressure in it.

Apart from a huge court case coming up in July which is the culmination of the last 5 years of a case which had huge impact on me and affected me mentally, the time is nigh that I cut myself the slack. I shall be stepping down from the union and letting someone else take those reigns up. The court case will also give me closure to what hurt my soul.

I wish you all a very Happy New Year and a wish that 2020 is a lot more balanced than 2019.

Sadly deep down I don’t believe that will happen. We just need to make the best of what we can and certainly be a lot nicer and kinder to each other. 🥳🥳



New years party dress from Legendaire

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Oline Lipstick from A R T E

Blossom eyeshadow from A R T E

Charlotte hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty

Lets celebrate outdoor seating from Chez Moi

Happy New year champagne cart from Chez Moi


BBQ anyone?

BBQ anyone?

If you live in South east UK then you know the chances of a BBQ today is literally nada!

They predicted lightening and thunder showers which we had overnight to sweep right back again.

So I decided I’d have s virtual BBQ instead and chill in my pretend sunshine at the Bellessaria houseboat.

I’ve actually got the day off work in reality today because I had a appointment earlier and later on I’m doing something exciting.

You will see it later this week. But suffice to say I’m in a pretty happy mood today.

I hope you all are having a great one.


Adere sundress (with hud) from Artizana

No Between hair from no.match

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Glam eyeshadow from A R T E

Sweet gloss lipstick from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara beauty

Hot summer days

Hot summer days

What a gorgeous Sunday I have had here in England today. The sun has just been shining and I have spent the day with family and enjoying just that, spending time together.

Time spent with family and friends is so precious and often we lead such manic lives that we forget what is most important.

The smiles as the children stare up as you when you make a joke, the smile when someone hears how much you miss them. Those are the important things in life.

Then of course there is the sunshine. Enjoy the video. Its simple but you will see it didn’t need anything more.



Riley bodysuit from Well Made at the Designer Showcase

Influence Nails from Cazimi at the Designer Showcase

Tokyo sunglasses from Haysuriza at the Designer Showcase

Whale Float from Chez Moi

Rare eyes  from A R T E

Oline lipstick from A R T E

Misty hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley