What’s outside is not inside

Been trolled yet again and video taken down. I’ll reupload to site upon returning home and will be moving entire channel of content in future .

Oh it’s dark and dreary outside this morning.

But inside I’m feeling quite bright and happy despite being trolled online on a daily basis.

There is really something about when you know someone and you both realise that you have been under each other’s radar for quite a while but just didn’t see it.

That’s me right now.

Friendship can lead to so many things and often we overlook exploring what is so obvious to us. Those on my Facebook will already be aware of what I’m talking about. Those out there in the wide world, will just have to wait to find out!

Suffice to say he knows what I’m talking about.

Now to the outfit video….

Video:-

Credits :-

Suellen outfit from La Perla now at the Designer Showcase

Charlotte hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at La Vie

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Contemplation

Good morning

So I’m sat here on my bus headed to work and after yesterday’s troller drama, You Tube have taken down that strike that some silly person attempted to make against my account.

It does go to show we need to stick up for ourselves.

Don’t be intimidated by individual or group troublemakers that invade what we do. Tackle them head on and fight our cause.

Well in saying that I’m not advocating a punch up in a back street alley. I’m saying don’t feel you can’t stand up for yourself when it comes to your social media.

You don’t have to be bullied and trolled. Report them. Raise awareness. Don’t allow the silly people to get away with it.

My situation with You Tube.Unfortunately You Tube have a bot system which reacts when someone raises a false claim. The bot system is automatic but once you appeal and report they do actually look further into it.

If you don’t bother and just accept what has happened then it stays. So always stand up for yourself if you get an issue.

And if you can’t, get someone to help you.

Have a lovely day.

DRESS

Credits :-

Anzu hair by Argrace

Liziah outfit from Enigma at the TWE12VE

The outfit consists of  dress, shoes and choker

Self reflection bento pose from Luanes World

40’s lipstick from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at La Vie

Saturday night

I feel like singing that song Saturday Night by Whigfield.

But I will spare you this voice moment because frankly, you ever heard the cats in the garden?

That’s me.

Im singing this right now in RL and my son just walked past shaking his head.

I don’t think it was a nodding in a positive way.

I’m guessing the neighbours banging on the wall right now is not suggesting they love this song like I do?

My guilty pleasure.

Now for the outfit….

Video:-

Credits :-

Teodora dress from AdoreZ at the Designer Showcase

Charlotte hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at The Last Forever

Designer Showcase

The travel

Seriously anyone else like me a public transport person?

If you are then you know my pain right now.

We have no choice on public transport who invades our personal space when you are squeezed in like sardines.

So I’m currently pushed up against the side of the bus whilst the person next to me has made themselves entirely comfortable using my ample bosom as their elbow rest.

What’s even better is said person reeks of stale cigarettes and some other body odour I can’t quite place.

So what would you do in this situation?

My inner Liz wants to have an exorcist moment, but the sensible balance Liz is tolerating it.

Half hour to go……

Video:-

Credits :-

Honey Knit outfit from D E Boutique now at the Designer Showcase

Yonaga hair from Argrace

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at Devin sims

Designer Showcase

Green house on the hill

I visited the little house with the Green windows on the hill.

Its kind of like stepping into a colouring book and being part of a fantasy.

Not sure whats behind the green door.

One day I aim to find out.

Still its a nice place to come and talk to people and just find relaxation because its so innocent and sweet.

Love it.

Video:-

Credits:-

Shot on location at A house on the Hill by Theanine

Download the software from SANSAR

Todays Lesson

I feel like the teacher and not the student here.

Something about feeling like I’m a teenager again is very appealing.

Sadly the fact is I’m far removed from being a teenager as could possibly be.

Today I’m on the bus reflecting a little. Actually not reflecting, panicking.

My son and 5 of his mates are off on a mountain climb expedition.

To climb the 3 tallest mountains in the UK.

The first will be Scotlands Ben Nevis.

Now of course I’m proud etc, but worried too.

You see my son and his mates haven’t even climbed an ant hill in their lives and their idea of training for this was a group jog twice a week for the last month. Yep that’s it!

There are organised groups for this but they are doing this alone.

The drive there will take approximately 11 hours and so they will reach Ben Nevis in Scotland by sundown tonight. They intend to climb in the dark. Yes you read that correctly.

Am I a worried mother, you’re damn right I am.

So I doubt over the next 4 days I’ll be quite at peace until he walks back through the front door intact.

Seriously this having children malarkey, you never ever stop worrying.

Mind you, I have 4 days of naked running around and doing as I please without worrying about mother modesty!!!

I may as well enjoy it.

Now for the video lesson…..

Video:-

Credits:-

School yard Crush outfit from Entice now at the 4Mesh

Donna hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Décor Jazz

Yesterday I arrived home from work basically in tears.

Office bullies are my greatest despise.

They come in all shapes and guises and you least expect it when it happens to you.

I didn’t expect to overhear the discussions whispered at high volume or notice the interrogation of my work by someone who is famously and I mean famously incompetent. But I did.

It hurt.

You see two of the people involved both are highly unprofessional women who have major flaws in the workplace.

One for being basically paid a high wage and not doing her job properly for the last 5 years and the other for her poor behaviour in the office regarding her colleagues and the way she can treat them. Add to that open gossip about other team members in an open plan office.

Back to the first women. She has been protected from disciplinary action from two line manages because of her friendship with the grandparent manager.

If she hadn’t had that protection she would have been out of a job at the very least 3 years ago.

The other is simply great at her actress skills when line management are about.

So yesterday I was in the fire line for their toxic collaboration. It felt awful and today I’m unsure how I feel.

Suffice to say I am not one to tolerate being bullied. That is why I became a union rep in the first place.

Bullies have no right to be in any workplace, school or social environment.

So anyhow I went home and decided to immerse myself in something else.

Another attempt at decor.

Thank you to Raindale for letting me use your land to film.

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Credits:-

Otterbury Platform from Raindale at the Décor Circle at Tres Chic

Kenward House and Welcome post, the fall edition from Raindale at the Spoonful of Sugar Festival

Oak tree and wild grass from Little Branch

Wild lavender potted plant from Dutchie

Field grass pampas (surrounding house) from Hayabusa Design

Woodhurst dining set from Raindale

Summer garden hanging plants from {what next}