Another new home

Another new home

Im like a moving butterfly, flying from leaf to leaf looking for my forever home.

Yep moved again!!

The beautiful place Rosie and I had is no more, since a nightclub opened on the other half of the region and basically shoved out scripted this and that and our lag went from perfect to lets walk in treacle. Nature of the beast when you share a sim or a region. You have no control of the out look beyond your own 4 lines.

Rosie had done a great job of the vram police and making sure that everything on the land meant there was no drain on the computer when we walked around etc.

In one week that changed and frankly that was it. Move.

So here I am again showing you a new place but also showing you the old place as a visit down memory lane as I hadnt really got around to the full show off. Clearly I am rambling again which I tend to do .

Funny thing SL is a great place for not feeling too sad when things like this happen as you just each time create your own fantasy and its like going home.

Video:-

Credits:-

Nina dress and heels from Legendaire at the Designer Showcase

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Gloss Lipstick from A R T E

Charisma hair from Truth

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty

PLAY FREE

Stepping back to reality

Stepping back to reality

The past few days have been the oddest in my SL life!

Two cries for help in the world and my automatic behaviour is always to jump in and try solve the problem.

That’s my nature and always has been the case.

Imagine finding that ultimately that with all the best intentions there’s always more to be learned and a fuller story to be told. Greater impacts etc etc.

All I will say for now is that I’m disappointed in the SL world that the ideal of living your best SL life isn’t true for many and the human condition certainly isn’t left at the log in screen.

Still I’m going to tell you one thing. But not it’s full story because again I do have a respect for privacy for individuals.

LINDEN LAB and it’s staff are absolutely bloody awesome!!!!

Dont ever ever let me hear anyone speak ill of them and of their caring for the community being non existent.

I can personally tell you one thing. They care!!!

Credits:-

Sylvia outfit from Legendaire at the Designer Showcase

Bella Backdrop from Minimal

Holo bag from Ison

Gitte eyebrows from A R T E 

Galvez hair from DOUX

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Zafirah lipstick from A R T E

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty

 

Happy new year Everyone

Happy new year Everyone

So another year ends and we say goodbye to all the old and go into welcoming the new.

Or rather an anticipation for something new and a list of resolutions we set ourselves and by month 3 already fail in.

Why do we do this?

Save it all up for one night and promise ourselves changes we know deep down that if we truly meant them, we would be already on our way to achieving them?

This year I have zero intention of resolution making. I still have the past 25 years of those I’m still yet to achieve. So I may as well reverse and start from that point.

Or I just accept what is and rather than set myself these targets, just walk into the new year and grab it by the balls.

I can say I have a few projects coming up in 2020 which I’m excited about and that is something I look forward to sharing as the year evolves. But not just yet.

I prefer to share after the fact. Not before.

One reflection I have as I sit here tapping on my phone is that I do want to move towards live-streaming . But I’m not sure I want to do virtual live streaming.

There’s other projects in my head that I want to try out separate to virtual and I may yet.

I’m also still seeking advice on supporting people struggling with social media trolling.

That is a topic I spoke about and I’m very passionate about. But it needs to be done properly with all the safety mechanisms in place for confidentiality as well as bringing people on board who are trained.

This project may be wider than SL so hence I’m being very careful about how it’s done. But watch this space!

One major plan I do have in 2020 is that I have decided after nearly 11 years of caring and supporting people in the work place. It’s time for me to step back and allow myself to experience life with a little less pressure in it.

Apart from a huge court case coming up in July which is the culmination of the last 5 years of a case which had huge impact on me and affected me mentally, the time is nigh that I cut myself the slack. I shall be stepping down from the union and letting someone else take those reigns up. The court case will also give me closure to what hurt my soul.

I wish you all a very Happy New Year and a wish that 2020 is a lot more balanced than 2019.

Sadly deep down I don’t believe that will happen. We just need to make the best of what we can and certainly be a lot nicer and kinder to each other. šŸ„³šŸ„³

Video:-

Credits:-

New years party dress from Legendaire

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Oline Lipstick from A R T E

Blossom eyeshadow from A R T E

Charlotte hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty

Lets celebrate outdoor seating from Chez Moi

Happy New year champagne cart from Chez Moi

WordPress.com

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas

I’ll be fairly quiet the next few days apart from a Christmas video.

But wanted to wish you all a Merry (those who drink) and Happy (those who just are) Christmas period.

Currently I’m pretty much feeling sick and mine may very well be on my sofa tomorrow coughing a razor blade or two. (Not literally, I’m not that magical)!

I can’t exactly attend a houseful of people like this. Unfair to them, but more so unfair to me.

I have no taste buds or sense of smell and it will just be a wasted moment of me whining the whole day about ow rubbish I feel.

Today I’m feeling pretty sorry for myself like I’m the only one in the world feeling bleh.

Logically and realistically speaking I’m not, but allow me the self indulgence as I rarely get to feel sorry for myself and revel in it. I figure a gin gargle later may be called for. Medicinal purposes of course.

Today I have to wrap my home made gifts and then also bake the dessert for everyone for tomorrow and lots of biscuits. Don’t worry I will demonstrate ultra sterile behaviours whilst doing so.

Have a great time and be nice to each other. Even once a year is better than not at all.

Credits:-

Jade Winter coat from Legendaire with boots and scarf (Hud included)

Reflecticeeyes  from Amara Beauty

Zafirah Lipstick from A R T E

Blossom eyeshadow from A R T E

Irenka hair from Truth

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty

Full

Full

I’ve just got home from my work Christmas meal.

Was gorgeous and I’m pretty stuffed.

I had a lovely day with work today and the festive spirit is definitely in the air with the office like Santa’s grotto.

I would have taken photos but it’s a government office and due to confidentiality etc etc never a good idea to share work publicly. So you will just have to imagine Santa’s grotto.

I really have nothing to say because I’m still in the moment of what a lovely day it has been. Chilling in the sofa with the cats like the cat lady I am and considering a hot chocolate in my brand new glorious secret Santa mug. Not so secret because I know who gave it to me.

I then came home to a huge box outside my front door from a floral company. Inside a basket with roses, bottle wine and box of chocolates.

I did get excited thinking I had a secret admirer then realised it was from my landlady.

Still what a lovely thing to do.

Credits:-

Quinn outfit fromĀ  Legendaire

Sira lashes fromA R T E at the eBento

ReflecticeĀ eyesĀ  fromĀ Amara Beauty

Glam on eyeshadow fromĀ A R T E

Charlotte hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

EdieĀ  skin in 05 fromĀ  Amara Beauty

Face Off

Face Off

Some days it can hit you. Those feelings that you bury.

Mine hit me today whilst sitting in a Social security Benefits training session.

There I was in the moment and there it was. The feelings. Then they went.

But as I came home they returned like nimrod lightening. (Yeah I made that lightening description up).

Like a bolt searing inside me. Tearing my soul and that temptation to just once more. Have it again.

The comfort feeling to be satiated.

Then…….

I found some in the cupboard. A whole bar of fruit and nut chocolate.

Hallelujah!!!!

Credits:-

Paulie outfit from Legendaire (with hud )at the Designer showcase

Harvest Moon nails from Cazimi at the Designer Showcase

Eldora bento rings from Avada at the Designer Showcase

Gem eyesĀ  fromĀ Amara Beauty

Face animations courtesy of Vista Animations

Blossom eyeshadow fromĀ A R T E

Gloss lipstick fromĀ A R T E

Francesca hair from Rama Salon

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

EdieĀ  skin in 04 fromĀ  Amara Beauty

Shot on location atĀ Fox Road

A moment

A moment

I had a conversation with my cat Bondi earlier. As you can rightly guess, he really didn’t answer me but to state he wanted food.

Let me take a moment and point out that I actually have two cats Bondi and Tippi.

They are these days the Ying to my Yang. My Ping to my Pong.

Despite the synchronicity between us I still don’t have a damned idea what that furry critter says to me half the time. She on the other hand, has nothing to say.

What I will tell you is that when I dress in the morning and look in the mirror, Bondi is the one to look at me and cast his approving eye over me. I could believe it is approving or maybe it’s with no interest. I’ll stick to the first idea.

After all, it’s him that snuggles up with me on the sofa.

Credits:-

Deborah Gown from Legendaire at the Designer Showcase Sept round

Lavender lipstick and nail polish from Cazimi at the Designer Showcase

Glam on eyeshadow fromĀ A R T E

Petra pose fromĀ Lyrium

PearlĀ  hair from Astrology

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

EdieĀ  skin in 04 fromĀ  Amara Beauty

Shot on location atĀ Esoteric

Visiting Soul2Soul

Visiting Soul2Soul

In today’s Coffee and quick chat I am taking you around one of the Soul2Soul sims, of which there are a few.

I have visited previously for a dance video, but decided I wanted to show you around a little.

Heads up there are private residences in the sims so try to be mindful unlike me who didn’t notice.

Video:-

Credits:-

Akemi outfit from Legendaire (only $49L on the MP)

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Between hair from no.match

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara beauty

Shot on location at Soul2Soul

Excuse me but thereā€™s no coffee?

Excuse me but thereā€™s no coffee?

Today I did the let’s change things around thing and went for a walk at lunchtime.

I mean to be fair, it was only to Tesco and back. Though it did take an hour because I went for a browse down the aisles as one does, checking out the food. Checking out the men. As you do.

After all they say it’s a good place to strike up a random conversation.

I visited the fruit and veggie aisle and browsed some rather plump tomato’s. Picked up a cucumber and a bunch of spring onions.

As I turned the corner into the meat aisle I swear the song Hallelujah should have been playing. Only Tescos doesn’t play shopper music.

Hunk of most women’s dreams was fondling the duck legs and frankly looking like he had a firm grip on those.

I thought what the heck I’d make a beeline for the steak, proving I like a good fine cut. Making me maybe appealing?

It seems not. Just as I picked up a good rump, off he went into the wild yonder of the superstore. There was me. Holding a rump.

As I threw it back in the fridge I made my way to the checkout in the hope I may cast a glance again at said stud. Paid for my shopping and scurried out the store. Nothing.

When I got home, after unpacking the lot. I realised in my hormonal excitement I had forgotten the coffee.

Moral of story? Get the coffee before heading to the fruit and veggie aisle.

Credits:-

Demri outfit from Legendaire at the Designers Showcase

Eidi Lipstick from Dulce Secrets at the August round of Designer Showcase

Madison necklace from Avada

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Charlotte  hair from Analog Dog

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara beauty

A bit of country why not

A bit of country why not

Another random video that I did about a week ago.

Honestly I have a cupboard full of them.

I tend to call country type music Chicken Kickin music.

Yeah I do, I admit. But can I tell you something, I love good old modern country music and the stories they tell.

I shall now go to sleep. Goodnight and enjoy.

Video:-

Credits:-

Josie outfit from Legendaire

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Tropical eyeshadow from A R T E

Oline lipstick from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty