Coffee with Isa and sexual harassment

Today’s coffee is a little more thought provoking and serious. But also something many of us, especially women relate to. However never let it be said men don’t suffer this as well as they do.

If you’re being harassed at work

Sexual harassment can include:

Sexual comments or jokes

Physical behaviour, including unwelcome sexual advances, touching and various forms of sexual assault

Displaying pictures, photos or drawings of a sexual nature

Sending emails with a sexual content

If you’re being sexually harassed by someone you work with, you should:

Tell your manager – put it in writing and keep a copy of the letter or email

Talk to your HR team or trade union – they’ll be able to give you advice

Collect evidence – keep a diary recording all of the times you’ve been harassed

In the U.K. under the 2010 Equality Act, sexual harassment is illegal.

Safe Workers 

Rape Crisis

Citizens Advice

EEOC- United States

Reach Out – Australia

Video:-

Credits :-

High waist rippy jeans with Hud from La Geeny and now at the Spotlight Event

Irelands call sweater from Entice at the Designer Showcase

Irenka hair from Truth

Martens boots from ::ROC::

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at La Vie

Advertisements

Autumn

It’s Saturday morning and I’m staring out the window.

I can see and feel Autumn has finally arrived.

The leaves have been slowly turning from green to shades of orangey browns and slowly dropping to the ground.

The air is getting a little cooler and I can safely say I can start packing away summer and shaking out the winter clothes soon.

I love the months from Autumn into winter. Clear blue skies on chilly days. I absolutely love this part of living in the UK.

Of course every year I get a little excited hoping for snow. Maybe this winter?

Video:-

Credits :-

Awilda Boots from Purple Moon at the Designer Showcase

Maura dress from Well Made at the Designer Showcase

Love exists pose from Luanes World at the XXX Event

Shirabe hair from Argrace

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Designer Showcase

Smell those roses

Sometimes you have to sit back and smell the roses.

Well today it is so not smelling of roses. We have had some stink emitting from the work fridge and despite everyone moaning about it no one has bothered to look what it could be.

So me being me, I just cant help myself. I went on a trawl through the fridge to find the offending bit of food which is violating every other bit of food therein.

There it was, the humble sandwich. In all its glory in lovely zip lock sandwich fresh plastic bag, sitting on its own in the middle of the fridge. All other foods so offended by its presence they are hugging the outer perimeter of the fridge shelf.

I picked up the offending egg sandwich and sniffed the bag.

Literally nearly passing out with the vile smell that came from it.

Name on the bag read a lady who resigned at least a month ago if not slightly more!

So this sandwich has taken pride of place all this time in the fridge, bullying all the other sandwich’s out simply by being a stinker.

So I need to go find some roses to smell.

Credits :-

Campbell jeans and sweater from I.M. Collection now at the Designer Showcase

It has a hud!!!

Be silent pose from Luanes World

Cowboy hat and hair from Argrace

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at La Vie

Be your wench?

Not much to be said today as I’m mostly exhausted and desperate to get off this bus and climb back into my bed.

Instead I’ll be sat at my desk wishing the day away to get back home again.

Am I a wench?

Well I actually checked out the word on good old google. ( who uses dictionaries nowadays?)

Wench means young girl or woman. But then slipped in next to it is buxom and prostitute.

So next time I may not refer to my best RL friend as that wench . Ha ha

Video:-

Credits :-

Be my Wench dress from Entice at We love Roleplay

Naomi hair from enVOGUE

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at La Vie

Them apples

So you thought I was going to talk about my troll today didn’t you?

Actually no I decided I’d no longer give that twit the time of day.

You Tube informed me that even though this person does this each day. As far as concerned once they do the process review my content is fine. So let’s just get used to it and carry on.

So last night I revisited La Vie as I said all this week I would blog from that lovely sim.

The apples looked rather good to bite. But sadly I have to remind myself I’m in a virtual world, I can’t really eat them!

Try as I might. Video below if this bad gal outfit. It’s Autumn but I’m full of sunshine .

Video:-

Credits :-

Natas outfit from Bijou now at the Hasthag Event

Janiah Hair from [elikatira]

Life moves fast pose from Luanes World

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at La Vie

Coffee and chat Monday

Time for coffee Vlog again.

It’s an all week adventure to La Vie as frankly the scenery is so relaxing and a great place for me to park my wee little pocket friend….

Video:-

Credits :-

Feronica dress from [LIZ] at  Designer Showcase

Charlotte hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Filmed on location at La Vie

Designer Showcase

And the link to Maddie Wyatt I speak of

La Vie has opened its doors again

A visit to the transformed La Vie, Autumn is coming.

Autumn is just about here!!

If you look out your window, depending what part of the world you are right now, you will see the leaves turning golden and starting to fall from the trees.

I love Autumn. The beautiful rich colours of nature as it readies itself to hibernate for the winter.

Autumn has now come to La Vie.

Both Krys Vita and Arol Lightfoot have been busy collaborating on the transformation of La Vie into a seasonal change.

I’d highly recommend you coming to visit. There are many little spots to relax and appreciate the beautiful autumnal/fall colours.

All this week I will visit each day and tease you with another little spot at La Vie.

Enjoy the video.

Video:-

Credits :-

Fall essentials outfit from Ghee and now at the Designer Showcase. This outfit comprises of various different colours and parts you can buy seperately. The Bento croc gloves, Embroidered Wool coat, Silky scarf, Oxford heels and opaque tights.

Irenka pom pom hat with hair from Truth

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at La Vie