Are You?

Are You?

I felt like a chat today. I’m in a really odd frame of mind. Seriously.

I want to laugh, chatter but at the same time I’m in a state of awareness of sorts.

A truly odd day. I’m ok, are you?

Let’s chat. Well you can listen then tell me your state of play/mind wiggly thoughts you’re having.

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Credits:-

Flame Mini dress (has hud and sleeves detach) from Baiastice at the ACCESS Event

Camille Jewellery from [Orsini] at the ACCESS Event

Ara Hair from Kuni at the EQUAL10 Event

HDPRO Majer soft head from CATWA

Suzy Lipstick from A R T E

Eline skin from AMARA

Reflectice eyes from Amara

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Triumph sofa from Black sand

Dancing in the fields

Dancing in the fields

Today has been a simply gorgeous day. Gorgeous!! I could have danced in the fields.

I allowed myself to step into the outside world and went for an hour long walk. That was 4 hours ago. Now I’m absolutely shattered. As in I need a sleep. Seriously I can barely keep my eyes open.

I have to say every man and his dog was out there. You would be forgiven to think the pandemic never existed. Honestly I had to jump out the way of the groups walking around.

Then there are the runners! Those sweaters, you know them. They run past and flick their sweat as they pant like the running dead going past. Those people!!

Honestly there was a sweat event at the lakes today. Again groups of them. Giving you mega sweat instead of lonely sweat. That’s more than any non sweater wants to receive.

Why do I ramble about sweat? Because Covid travelling unconsciously. That’s simple.

Credits:-

Fanxy dress from Palette at the ACCESS Event

Gabriella hair from Kuni at the ACCESS Event

HDPRO Majer soft head from CATWA

Secret garden backdrop from K&S at the ACCESS Event

Suzy lipstick from ARTE

Eline skin from AMARA

Reflectice eyes from Amara

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Equal 10 and Raindale ride

Equal 10 and Raindale ride

Today I quite fancy a balloon ride somewhere up there in the sky. No particular destination in mind just as long as it is sunny, safe and the only people allowed are reasonable minded people with a positive view to share.

I see so much negativity out in the world right now that I wish for a magic balloon to take me away.

Though I know, that’s never going to happen. We all know that magic balloons only fly in our minds and in reality we have to face what is real and daft.

I’m just having my lunch and treated myself to a hot cross bun, tea and an orange. Rather simple and unexciting I know. but tasty none the less.

I hope you all have a dream balloon as well in your minds. If you do? Let me know and we can do a race to see who gets to the magical destination first!

Credits:-

AirValley balloon from Raindale at the Cupid Inc Exclusive

Jolie top and skirt from Belle Epoque at the EQUAL10 Event

Ara Hair from Kuni at the EQUAL10 Event

HDPRO Majer soft head from CATWA

Suzy Lipstick from A R T E

Eline skin from AMARA

Reflectice eyes from Amara

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Lunch

Lunch

It was lunchtime and I literally wolfed down my chicken and rice leftovers from last night. I can tell winter is coming. I crave comfort food.

I’d make a great winter bear!

By the way. This is my old head not current new one.

Last night was Second Life book club with Drax. As I mentioned in my vlog I’m helping out a bit at the moment and it’s been a great experience for me to do so. Very interesting as well listening in and I do spend a fair deal of time laughing in my living room while I’m streaming.

I’m learning a thing or two about controlling my camera when in lag situations and knowing when it’s safe to move. There always is a sweet spot when the lag goes pooof and gone. I saw it happen last night and I was quite in awe as usually under normal situations I just relog or wait till another day. But this time I had no choice! You live and learn as the saying goes.

Credits:-

Jazzy dress from Sacha’s Designs

Lilith Hair from Kuni at the EQUAL10

Sunflowers Pose from Amitie at the EQUAL10

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Gloss Lipstick from A R T E

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty

Eyebrowse

Eyebrowse

There is nothing more challenging when showing clothing and eyebrows in blog posts and at the same time trying to make a photo fun and interesting. Showing both!

I don’t have the benefits of knowing how to paint things in or being graphically as talented as those around me using photoshop and gimp.

I have gimp, but my abilities in there are currently very noob. Mericat showed me a little tip the other week on smudging to rid myself of irregular areas.

I tried it and it does work. I’m just no good at it.

So capturing my eyebrows and outfit I decided to make it a lot more fun with the caption added. Maybe you can overlook some of the itty bitty bad bits to my capture.

Happy Friday and remember Eyebrowse!!!

Credits:-

London Fog Skirt and Jacket from I M Collection at the Sense Event

Hebba Eyebrows from A R T E at the Cosmopolitan Event

Angelina Hair from Kuni

Reflectice eyes from Amara Beauty

Arwen eyeshadow from A R T E

Spring lipstick from A R T E

Simone bento head from Lelutka

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Isabella applier for lelutka in tone 5 from  Amara Beauty

Shot on location at Motorheadz

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Red before bed

Red before bed

Would you believe I slept like a giant sized baby last night and it was bliss.

I’ve had a issue the past few weeks with sleep and my brain slowing down and really found I was getting only 3-4 hours of that sleep a night.

I personally cannot function properly on little sleep and it’s been hard to keep to my routine and not give into it. I function best on 7 hours.

Finally last night I slept. What was the secret I hear you say? Detaching from social media for most of my day, and before sleeping, turning the iphone away and just playing with the cats and relaxing my mind so that it slowed down and was almost like a slow steady heartbeat.

A lot has to be said for internet, social media and the like that’s so positive.

But a lot has to also be said about some of the impacts it has on you.

Draxtor Despres has an excellent attitude to it all. Switch off and engage with life.

I’ve learnt that he turns off regularly and spends time doing other things and only goes to social media at selected moments. It’s not 24/7 and actually I think we could all benefit from this.

Most of my issues stems from my Fibro but also I do feel engagement in these electronic activities has a great impact on us.

We don’t notice it until our minds are working overtime. Consider the fact many work on computers all day, then afterwards social media, television and gaming.

What opportunity are we giving ourselves to relax completely and interact with life around us?

We walk the streets and everywhere you look are people with their heads buried in their electronic devices, staring at the little screens as they walk.

What kind of world will we be in ten years from now? Will people even walk out their front doors?

Let’s take a positive action to limit our time and engage more with what is around us.

Credits:-

Livia Red/black (more colours available) jacket dress from Sascha’s Designs

Sera eyeshadow from Entice

Oline lipstick  from A R T E

Hera hair from Kuni

Catya bento head from CATWA

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara

Hand and face pose from Bodylanguage

Selfie anywhere stairs backdrop from VOZ at the EQUAL10 Event

Be the alpha woman you are

Be the alpha woman you are

Today’s post is about being your own person.

Not a follower of the masses, nor a leader of none.

Stepping out into that wide world and being commander of your own life and taking charge of where it’s going.

There are many of us around that are alpha females but continue to “behave” in order to our surroundings and ways we have been educated by society.

What makes an alpha woman?

  1. She doesn’t give up easily. She sees what she wants and makes every effort to work to that goal.
  2. She is confident enough to make the first move. Be it in relationships or life choices. She is ok to make a mistakes.
  3. An alpha woman is loyal to her tribe. She is confident enough to not let jealousy affect her spirit and her sense of loyalty and caring is guaranteed to her friends.
  4. The alpha woman knows what she truly wants out of life. Her goal is her prize and she is not afraid to work towards it. Knowing that she may be in it for the long haul. She doesn’t cheat to get it either. She is not afraid to pull up her sleeves and work hard.
  5. She has no fear of being alone. She is content in her own company and doesn’t require another to define her. She doesn’t need a man at her side 24/7 and can achieve many of her interests on her own.
  6. When she loves, she loves with intensity. She gives 100% to the recipient. Although she can walk alone in life, when she is given the trust and love, she gives it back tenfold.
  7. She has ambition and always striving to fulfill goals she sets herself. Her ideal mate is someone not afraid of this. Equally someone who holds this trait too.
  8. She speakers up for what she believes in and voicing her thoughts on injustice.
  9. She is protector to her inner tribe and fiercely loyal to all women.
  10. She doesn’t gossip or play games, especially about her tribe.

The one great thing about an Alpha woman is she does not feel the need to put other women down.

She is not competitive agains her tribe, but confident in her own goals and thoughts. Therefore she would never bring down another woman.

Are you an alpha woman?

Credits:-

Demi dress from UNA at the EQUAL10 Event

Hera hair from KUNI at the EQUAL10 Event

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Metal lipstick from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Shot on location at The Great Fissure

Visiting Esoteric and Social media

Visiting Esoteric and Social media

In todays Coffee I show you a glimpse of a lovely destination called Esoteric in Second Life. It is an adult area and so of course, try and be an adult when  visiting.

Its a great place to visit because of the event nights they have there for socialising and also the very beautiful grounds that were created for people to relax and explore.

It is adult themed  but I am not showing you those bits, so there!!

What I will show you is a glimpse of the grounds as I do my coffee vlog and talk about todays topic I promised in last weeks I would raise.

Details of the event nights will be below the video and I assure you, held by lovely people who truly make you feel welcome. Next Saturday is School night, so shake out those uniforms and see you there!

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Credits:-

Wilma Jumpsuit from I M Collection

Jolene Necklace from Supernatural at the Designer Showcase till the end of the month

Millie earrings from Michan

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Sweet gloss lipstick from A R T E

Bonnie hair from Kuni

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty

Shot on location at Esoteric beach


Regular Events at Esoteric

Friday’s at 3pm SLT Max Kleene and then Rommie/Jayde do a party

Saturdays 1 – 3 SLT Jamie Oakley and Wynn Klaar host fun themed nights (Sat 24th back to school night)

Sundays 8 – 10am SLT Luca and Ame bring the music

Periodically they have tribute nights and so join the Facebook to keep up to date

 

 

 

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Coffee at Baja Norte #Be Kind on social media

Coffee at Baja Norte #Be Kind on social media

I have decided to bring forward my Coffee with Isa from a Monday to a Sunday.

With no blog on a Monday morning at all.

I am just switching it around for the heck of it. I plan to do more Sansar videos and will relegate them to Mondays and people can choose to watch or not depending on their interest.

In todays Coffee I am touching on something that troubles me of late and that is the behaviour of people on Social media, particularly in the virtual community. It seems to be getting worse and not better and so I am running a poll on this which the link will be at the start of the video to gain insight into how people are feeling about it.

Its a simple yes or no answer and no indication of who you are at all. I felt I would rather do it that way than put anyone in the position of a comment which may bring them any detriment in any way, shape or form.

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Andrea outfit from Osmia at the EQUAL10 Event

Hera  hair from Kuni at the EQUAL10 Event

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Tropical eyeshadow from A R T E

Sweet gloss lipstick from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Shot on location at Baja Norte

VAN LIFE – Thelma has moved with Trevor

VAN LIFE – Thelma has moved with Trevor

Thelma has moved with little Trevor and it’s the first day in their new home.

It’s a van.

Let’s join them now….

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Credits:-

Juicy cute mini dress from 1 Hundred  at the Designer Showcase

Hera hair from Kuni at the EQUAL0 Event

Simone bento head from Lelutka

Freya Mesh body from Belleza

Iza dark skin from Lara Hurley

Trevor Junior from Zooby

Trevor’s outfit from Sweet Penelope