Stealing flowers

Stealing flowers

Soon I am heading for my lush bed so I can catch a few hours before I stream the 6pm Book club with Con Sweeney.

Before I do, quick question. Have you ever nicked flowers out of someone else’s garden? You know, looked around and sneakily yanked a bloom or two to take home and put in a vase?

No me neither! As if moi would ever ever do anything so naughty like that! I mean come on, this face???

Speaking of face. (changing hat subject real quick) I have fallen in love with my new face. I’m almost tempted to redo my other blog pictures due in the next few days. On reflection that’s just too much work right now, so enjoy this face today in this outfit and admire it’s sheer glorious look.

Credits:-

Brand new day outfit from Entice at the Cosmopolitan Event

Sunflowers Pose from Amitie at the EQUAL10

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Oline Lipstick from A R T E

Sera eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Freya mesh body Belleza

Dua hair from DOUX

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A little opening up

A little opening up

This morning is a slow start. It’s Sunday and it’s allowed to be. Why do I feel guilty when I choose to have a lazy one?

My housemate is out jogging her usual 10k run in her very obsessive way and I note because of that I feel a sense of guilt at my own Sunday laziness.

There are a few things I’m noticing about her that do concern me. One being the extreme fitness obsession. I don’t mean that lightly either, the girl is obsessed.

So obsessed that every single day is spent climbing, running, doing jujitsu, biking and yoga. Anyone who doesn’t do the same she has a negative view on. In fact anyone who has a extra pound on their skeleton is fat according to her observation.

I’m also noticing other traits that concern me. The level of self love being based solely on how she looks and equating that to her attitude about others. Which has a direct impact on me. It’s impacting me and how I feel about myself. Especially as I’m in a time of life that many women go through of body change etc.

This is my home and yet I’m feeling uncomfortable within it. Because the dynamic of this person and her views are very contrary to mine.

She refers to disabled people as “retarded”, gay and trans people as “needing counselling”.

I have tried for months to be like the mother figure and impart my ways of teaching her a different set of views but let’s face it. It’s not going to happen, the girl is lacking in many areas.

Oh and if you are overweight, and I mean even slightly you are plainly and simply a fat person who has no control.

Oh and if I laugh out loud reading something I hear “Calm down”. What is that about?

This girl is Slovakian. Is that a cultural set of attitudes or one related to a person? Any suggestions on this would be appreciated.

I’m considering the ending of the living arrangement in the new year. After all it is my home and if I’m feeling that I don’t like the aura of a person then frankly I’d rather struggle with my bills than feel this.

Credits:-

Only Exception top and skirt from Entice

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Gloss Lipstick from A R T E

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty

Charisma hair from Truth

Sunny Friday

Sunny Friday

I do often wonder if I wasn’t living this life, what other life would I be living.

That’s it.

Happy Friday, now off you go and think about that one while I decide.

No, really. That’s it.

Credits:-

We are young dress from Entice

Sunflowers pose from Amitie at the EQUAL10

Husky Blue eyes from A R T E at the eBento

Paradox hair from Stealthic

Gloss Lipstick from A R T E

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Freya mesh body from Belleza

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty

Florence in the Autumn

Florence in the Autumn

Happy Sunday everyone.

I’ve been exploring so a short post but a video instead.

Of course the outfit comes as part of my package tour.

Enjoy

Video:-

Credits:-

Santa-San Lingerie outfit from Entice

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Sally hair from Fabia

Sweet gloss Lipstick from A R T E

Glam On eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty

Shot on location at Florence at Low Tide Autumn


Under the skies

Under the skies

Hey there, what’s new?

I’m just here enjoying the sun as I unwind from the day and look forward to my bed. (The pixelated sun as it’s nighttime here)

In saying that by the time this blog leaves my computer and lands on your pages, I’ll already have hopped into bed.

I usually do it from my phone as I find sitting at a pc cumbersome at times.

I also appreciate the freedom of doing things where I please.

I’ve actually at times blogged on the loo, in the bath, sitting in the sunshine and it used to be always sitting on the bus headed to work.

I bet if you read on your phone, you’re guilty too!!

Can I just let you know I spent ages on this photo. Ages. I still didn’t achieve the effect that was hidden in my head but it’s close as I’ll get for today.

I was aiming for a flight but not retro look, ethereal but not glory, blurry but not blurred, colourful but not too vivid.

I’ll give up now and bid you a goodnight and hope your evening is as pleasant as mine looks in this photo.

Credits:-

Ruby Tuesday outfit (with MEGA Hud) from Entice at the Cosmopolitan Event

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Bloodline hair from DOUX

Zafirah lipstick from A R T E

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty

Shot on location at Archipelago


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Too hot to trot

Too hot to trot

Here in the UK we are having a weather moment of high temperatures, today being set to hit 36.

In the grand scheme I lived in temperatures where that was average in both Australia and South Africa in the past. But…because England is not a hot country per se, when it hits those temperatures what you get is muggy heat. Also heat that is liable to land up with heat stroke.

I decided to stay out of the sun today and my huge enjoyment was running fan and virtual lazing in the sunshine.

I hope my fellow 🇬🇧 readers take good advice and don’t go crazy in the day. Remember to slip on a shirt, slop on some sunscreen and slap on a hat! Like this

Video:-

Credits:-

Irreplaceable top from Entice

Girls like you shorts fromEntice

Freya sunglasses from AnaStyle

Lana hair from DOUX

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Gloss Lipstick from A R T E

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty

The mermaid

The mermaid

Thelma is on her way back to screens again soon. In the meantime she desperately wanted to pose in this outfit for the blog.

Who am I to say no?

As I sit here tapping away on my phone, I’m watching NCIS and drinking a lush strawberry and kiwi Koperberg. What a lovely way to end my day.

I went for a long walk around my lakes today with my daughter and grandson, followed by lunch and a relax on my sofa . (Ok I also fell asleep on my sofa. ) But all of it, just bliss.

To me it’s very important to have downtime from all routine now and then. Work has to always take a back seat and so does blogging and vlogging.

The idea is to refocus and always to make sure you enjoy life.

I did a quick vlog on YouTube earlier about this as I have observed my fellow Vloggers and bloggers and I feel they need to cut themselves slack at times too.

Refocus on what’s important and grasp it with both hands. At the same time, give themselves an opportunity to energise.

I’ve always paced my life in this manner and it certainly does give me a sense of feeling more in control.

Anyhow, Thelma is coming back, frankly I’ve missed her dry sarcastic way of talking and as Autumn comes closer all characters will be back in screen again. For now though, I’m just enjoying the casual approach.

Have a lovely Tuesday.

Video:-

Cre dits:-

Lady of the sea outfit from Entice at We Love Roleplay

Reflectice eyes from Amara Beauty

Halo hair from KNOX

Tonja eyebrows fromA R T E

Tropical eyeshadow from A R T E

Oline lipstick from A R T E

Simone bento head from Lelutka

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Isabella applier for lelutka in tone 5 from  Amara Beauty

Shot on location at  Caribbean Sea of Love

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Challenge accepted

Challenge accepted

I actually haven’t much to say today because I’m right now having what’s left of my day off.

I booked this day weeks ago and for the life of me can’t remember why.

Suffice to say I’m sure someone is ultimately annoyed with me right now as I clearly forgot something.

Did I do anything? Nope. I had a slow morning relaxing. A lovely shower and then spent a gazillions minutes playing with TikTok!!

The addiction is real but I’m sure I’ll be bored soon. It’s not like anyone watches them apart from me. 😂😂😂

Seriously I spend ages just laughing at myself.

Here have a TikTok while you admire my virtual me.

It’s part of my contribution to the whole #challengeaccepted

Clearly I chose to do it differently.

https://vm.tiktok.com/JYWN8Hf/

Credits:-

Daisies  top and leggings (with hud) from Entice at the Cosmopolitan Event

Carian hair with sunhat from MINA

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

ZafirahLipstick from A R T E

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty

Shot on location at Luanes World

Detachment

Detachment

Happy Sunday everyone.

It’s 9:23 am here and I’m still in bed.

I’ve been awake a few hours but decided to have a luxury lay in and just relax a bit before I leap up like a ninja to the day.

Yesterday I took my break from SL, only logging to check a few things. It feels good to take breaks as often saturation can also be a negative, no matter how good things usually are.

Lately I’ve had a few angsty moments which I won’t discuss, but suffice to say sometimes you need detachment in order to feel better about situations.

So, I enact detachment in order to let things reassemble and feel better.

I do this in reality as well often, because removing yourself from a situation is often the best way to see the perspective. Try it sometime, it does work.

Today I’m not sure what I have planned. I decided to make none. Let things just flow and see what the day brings.

But first, time to make a coffee and see what’s for breakfast.

Credits:-

New attitude Skirt and top from Entice for theSaturday Sale

Mecca hair from DOUX

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Gloss Lipstick from A R T E

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty

I’m my daks

I’m my daks

Yes right now sitting back in my undies nibbling food and relaxed.

Ok maybe I don’t look like this, but I can pretend. I’m chilled and am wearing hardly anything because the flat is warm and I was suntanning earlier and kinda burnt my face a little.

At this age. You would think I’d learn. But clearly I’m a bit of a rebel at times.

There is something about beautiful lingeries that does make a woman feel like a woman.

Except when it doesn’t fit, digs under your boobies, cuts your back because the fabric is like plastic or goes so high up your vag that you feel like your split in half.

But, none the less get the fit right and you feel lush.

In Second Life, every day is a perfect fit day.

Credits:-

These Dreams Lingerie from Entice at the Super Saturday Sale

Jayna Hair from Sintiklia

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty