Harriet goes back to Ibiza

Harriet goes back to Ibiza

Harriet is on  her next leg of her holiday to forget Gabriel.

She goes back to Ibiza where she had wonderful memories of fun and sun.

Poor gal still hasn’t learnt to handle her drink.

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Credits:-

Desiree dress from Furtacor at the Designer Showcase

Ashanti Season headdress and necklace from Moondance Boutique at the Designer Showcase

Eidi Lipstick from Dulce Secrets at the August round of Designer Showcase

Lexi Tropical nails from Cazimi at the Designer Showcase

Night out eyeshadow from A R T E

Kimberley bento head from CATWA

Evie shape for the CATWA Kimberley head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin  in tone 3  from Amara

Shot on location at Tequila Sunrise and Essencia which is moving

The glass half full or half empty?

The glass half full or half empty?

Is your glass half full or half empty?

This is one of those expressions people use to define in many ways the type of person they are dealing with.

Often referred to in the work place.

I  find that a subjective reference rather than an objective reference to a person.

The way I see it, who is anyone to tell you where your glass should be? After all its your glass and you’re the person who may or may not empty it.

You see to me either way, the glass is at half. Was the glass enjoyable that it was never finished? Was it  so enjoyable it could be finished and they never got around to it?

I mean for me, the glass is always full.

I don’t drink red wine.

Happy Friday everyone!

Credits:-

Hint of Asian red dress from IM Collection at the ON9 Event  august 9th

Eidi Lipstick from Dulce Secrets at the August round of Designer Showcase

Ashanti necklace from Moondance Boutique at the Designer Showcase

Lexi Tropical nails from Cazimi at the Designer Showcase

Spring Joy bed from Aphrodite

Hodgpodge corner dresser from DRD

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Charlotte hair from Analog Dog

Yuki eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara beauty

Celebrating friends both virtual and real

Celebrating friends both virtual and real

Last night I had a lovely evening with my two good friends Annette and Carol.

We regularly get together and have something to eat and either put the world to rights or gossip about whatever each of us has to share.

We are three women with strong voices and if you were an observer in the corner you would be hard pressed to keep up with us and know what we are talking about.

We are like a busy intersection on one of the worlds busiest roads. We talk non stop from the minute we see each other until the minute we say goodbye again. Talking at great speed to fit it all in, until the next time we see each other.

This is what friends is about. You can go weeks without seeing each other and then when you do, it’s like that fast moving train, transference of information, and then it’s outta here again.

I have a few friends in my life that I look at like that and call them real friends both in reality and virtual life.

We don’t live in each other’s lives every day, but when needed are there for each other to listen and talk to. To hug and be hugged by.

Don’t ever forget those people in your lives. We can have hundreds of acquaintances who are “friends” on our social media’s etc.

But the reality of it, the real true friends are those that we can count on our fingers to be there when we most need them. The ones that listen when we need to talk, don’t judge and just are there to lift you back up.

Thank you to my friends both in reality and in the virtual world who have become friends.

Credits:-

Liliana dress with Jewellery from :::WILD::: at the Designer Showcase

Eidi Lipstick from Dulce Secrets at the August round of Designer Showcase

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Distance  hair from Moon

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara beauty

Harriet goes away

Harriet goes away

Harriet takes James advice and decides to go away a few days on a holiday with a very Mediterranean feel.

For Harriet this is just the tonic she needs to invigorate herself and feel better about Gabriel going away. It’s a rather sedate trip so far….

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Credits:-

June Skirt and top from I M Collection at the August QEvent

Zarro necklace from Shanghai at the Designer Showcase

Eidi Lipstick from Dulce Secrets at the August round of Designer Showcase

Night out eyeshadow from A R T E

Celeste hair from Mina

Kimberley bento head from CATWA

Evie shape for the CATWA Kimberley head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin  in tone 3  from Amara

Shot on location at Calas Santorini

Excuse me but there’s no coffee?

Excuse me but there’s no coffee?

Today I did the let’s change things around thing and went for a walk at lunchtime.

I mean to be fair, it was only to Tesco and back. Though it did take an hour because I went for a browse down the aisles as one does, checking out the food. Checking out the men. As you do.

After all they say it’s a good place to strike up a random conversation.

I visited the fruit and veggie aisle and browsed some rather plump tomato’s. Picked up a cucumber and a bunch of spring onions.

As I turned the corner into the meat aisle I swear the song Hallelujah should have been playing. Only Tescos doesn’t play shopper music.

Hunk of most women’s dreams was fondling the duck legs and frankly looking like he had a firm grip on those.

I thought what the heck I’d make a beeline for the steak, proving I like a good fine cut. Making me maybe appealing?

It seems not. Just as I picked up a good rump, off he went into the wild yonder of the superstore. There was me. Holding a rump.

As I threw it back in the fridge I made my way to the checkout in the hope I may cast a glance again at said stud. Paid for my shopping and scurried out the store. Nothing.

When I got home, after unpacking the lot. I realised in my hormonal excitement I had forgotten the coffee.

Moral of story? Get the coffee before heading to the fruit and veggie aisle.

Credits:-

Demri outfit from Legendaire at the Designers Showcase

Eidi Lipstick from Dulce Secrets at the August round of Designer Showcase

Madison necklace from Avada

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Charlotte  hair from Analog Dog

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara beauty

I need a lift

I need a lift

I need a lift to awake my soul right now.

It’s 1.34 pm here in the UK as I write this. I woke up about 15 minutes ago after a marathon sleep that my body clearly needed.

Exhaustion sometimes takes us by surprise and lately it has hit me like a sledgehammer.

I’ve been exhausted for quite a while now and constantly keeping myself running on my invisible treadmill for fear that if I stop and give in. This could mean a permanent life change.

To some that may sound incredibly ridiculous but to others that know how our own health issues and inner demons affect us, will understand and appreciate.

I am literally exhausted and with all the life worries that I have tumbling around in my head, I have to try and balance them. One accidental movement and the mountain could fall.

I think that’s the best way to describe exhaustion for me right now.

It’s a state of mind and a physical impact. What could change it? I don’t know. But what I do know right now, is that juggling has become my new skill.

I’ve woken up after 13 hours sleep. No more rested than I was before. Go figure.

Credits:-

Vivi dress from the I M Collection at the Designer Showcase

Eidi Lipstick from Dulce Secrets at the August round of Designer Showcase

Taxi pose from Nantra

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Charlotte  hair from Analog Dog

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara beauty

Just waiting

Just waiting

It’s been 3 days since I put in my formal request to work from home. I haven’t even had an acknowledgement.

It’s called flexible working. There are great business positives for it and I’ve addressed all the cons in the application so they’re answered before the questions arise.

However the most important reason for me is the difference it will make to my quality of life.

I would literally save 2.5 hours travelling time. I’d have control over my work environment which is the huge factor and I’d have better concentration.

Anyone who has this Fibro malarkey will know that some days you feel your age and then others you feel 100 years old. The pain in your body is real and finding your comfort spot can be hard.

I struggle with this in the office because I can not control my environment. I can’t sit with the sun on me and the window wide open. I can’t regularly move from my desk as often as I need to and most of all I cannot think because the fog becomes pretty intense.

The fog is getting worse for me. It’s such a weird experience that I still cannot fathom it.

It exists and comes over like a mist. Hangs over me for hours then all of a sudden lifts.

I can literally go from being beyond exhaustion to suddenly saying g’day.

So back to the waiting……

Credits:-

Year without rain flower dress from Entice at the Designer Showcase

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Aoi Si eyeshadow from Dulce Secrets at the Designer Showcase

Oline lipstick from A R T E

Charlotte  hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty

Year Without Rain - Flowers - MAIN (1024)

Everything is Black and White

Everything is Black and White

As I ride this bus into work today I’m contemplating my day and how it will fare.

To be honest I do this most days. Despite the overwhelming tired I feel at times, I am always thinking ahead and planning.

Last week I had quite a lot land on my plate and so working out in order of priority is a little difficult.

As you all know I am a unionist through and through. I believe strongly in people’s rights and making sure they’re protected.

What I have found though is trying to do this role in an open plan environment is becoming difficult.

Simply because there is no privacy in phone calls. There are no moments that I can just get on with the role because when I am sat at my desk, people just expect me to be doing the same as them. Which makes it hard because I can’t put my phone on busy so that I can concentrate.

So today I am going to tackle the solution to this whole situation and see what happens.

As far as I am concerned there is only a yes or no answer.

Which will it be, more importantly why!

Have a good day.

Credits:-

Leonor outfit from [LIZIAAH] at the Designer Showcase

Catalina Necklace from Moondance Boutique at the Designer Showcase

Annie nail polish from Cazim at the Designer Showcase

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Aoi Si eyeshadow from Dulce Secrets at the Designer Showcase

Oline lipstick from A R T E

Charlotte  hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty

Shot on location at Backdrop City

Over tall rusty cars in one leap

Over tall rusty cars in one leap

Do you ever wake up and think ” I wish I could just leap” as far away as possible?

Me right now.

Me this morning and no doubt Monday morning. Right now I’m excited it’s Friday and I can leap out the door and head on home.

It’s been a hard week.

Credits:-

Ishela outfit from LsR Moda at the Designer Showcase

Passionate lipstick from Dulce Secrets  at the Designer Showcase

Butterfly sunglasses from Haysuriza at the Designer Showcase

Stephanie hair from D!VA

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty

Hang on a moment

Hang on a moment

Today was my work Christmas meal for lunch. Can I state “stuffed”. Stuffed!

OMG the meal was gorgeous and amazing and what a lovely time it was. I think in the past few years this has been the loveliest meal we have had in terms of food and company. My team of colleagues are a great bunch. No I am not kidding you, REALLY!

I think after all the angst that has been before we have the right mix of people and a really lovely line manager who I think each and every one of us would support to the end and back.

At the end of the day you cannot ask for much more really.

Well maybe you could, MORE PAY!!

Strike!!!!!! hahahah

PS. I am not drunk.

Photos of food below the  credits.

Credits:-

Elisa dress from AnaSTyle’s  at the Designer Showcase

Beauty Mode nails from Cazim at the Designer Showcase

Modeling pose from SEmotion at the .equal10 Event

Teagan hair from Entwined at the .equal10 Event

Bet lehem eyes  from  A R T E at the Chapter Four

Pouty lipstick from Dulce Secrets at the Designer Showcase

Blossom eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara Beauty

Shot on location at Backdrop City on the panoramic views level