Who is this?

Who is this?

I have been in my own zone this weekend. Relaxing from the virtual world and just doing me.

Today I’m introducing reality me to the throw but with a twist.

I’m doing a social experiment in real life and I wanted to tell you all about it.

Yes you will have to watch the video, as that is the whole point. You have to see the visual behind this experiment to understand the actual experiment.

Let me know your thoughts after because I sure have many myself.

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I credit my mum  for the cheekbones as  its a family trait.

I also credit my mum for my amazing hair  and chirpy disposition despite all things that are in the world to bring us down.

My youthful skin is courtesy of regular use of Oil of Olay and using baby bum wipes to wipe makeup off.

My eyes are a result of eating all the carrots I was told to when I was younger under the belief I would go blind if I didn’t.  Fact though, I’m still as blind as a bat!

Essentially I credit myself for just looking amazing on an app. After all I had to push the buttons!!!!

Mostly I credit the company who came up with the FACE APPwho have now confused me and made me think about this social experiment just to see how far it will go.


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ASMR with Beverley /Scarlett Isle

ASMR with Beverley /Scarlett Isle

It’s 2020 and Beverley returns back to our screens for some more ways to find calm.

Sometimes calm can be found in the environment you place yourself and so Beverley is here to guide you through a visit to the Scarlett Isle.

An island in Second Life, not far from the east, due west enroute from other islands nearby.

Come with Beverley to find calm.

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Sunny look gacha outfit from Fixed-Online at the EQUAL10 

J0201 hair from Tram at the EQUAL10 Event

Genus baby bento head from GENUS

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Ava  skin in fair  from  Amara Beauty

Shot on location at Scarlett Isle

Feet

Feet

I was at work the other day and a colleague mentioned feet.

Don’t ask me how the conversation came up but it did.

What’s nice about feet, why people love feet and why others don’t.

Most of us agreed we liked our feet being touched, massaged, given a pedicure and tickled.

I think that’s a fairly common like. Some however absolutely find anyone touching their feet as mortifying. Personally I love a good foot massage.

Anyhow the subject then got into who would take pictures of their feet and send them to partners etc.

Again we all agreed we didn’t like something about our feet but if push came to shove why not. If our partners had a thing for our feet why not.

It was an interesting chat and I’ll spare you the gritty detail as funny as it was. Because frankly I’ll leave you guessing on that bit.

I may do a social experiment soon. Just to see how far and wide that fetish actually goes.

When I’ve done it, I’ll share it here with you.

In the meantime get down to the Sole with Beverley……

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Sally Outfit from Osmia

Radiance eyes from A R T E

Grace skin applier in Sand from Bold & Beauty

Lux Eyeshadow from A R T E

Lucy hair from Majika

Glossy lipstick from A R T E

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Genus baby bento head from GENUS

Naming ceremony of SoapyWater and ThunderClap

Naming ceremony of SoapyWater and ThunderClap

Today is the naming ceremony of Beverley as she transcends into the next stage of her life adventure into calm and chakra cleansing. Join her along this journey. Releasing all inner body energies. Releasing……

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Victorias Fantasy outfit from ::Smexy::

Radiance eyes from A R T E

Arwen Eyeshadow from A R T E

Suffer well hair from Magika

Bea lipstick from A R T E

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Genus baby bento head from GENUS

Stonehenge from Delacruz Technologies

Life isn’t a bunch of roses for anyone

Life isn’t a bunch of roses for anyone

Last nights Coffee with Isa took quite out of me. Because it was me baring a layer of myself that is not something I share. Certainly not with the world. Was it brave, stupid or downright madness? Ill let you know one day, but right now I feel it was cathartic for me and a few people I know who have been in the same situations.

Did I set out to bare so much? No.

In actual fact it was a general Coffee and I wanted to talk about some rubbish moments in SL that I wanted to share. I didn’t know I was going to keep talking and just lay it out.

Despite me being a open book etc. There is that part of me that has some traits where I pop things on a shelf and just leave them there.

Then something happens and it’s like a train that goes backwards and whizzes past every step of the long road and goes right back to start.

I think that’s a really common reaction from many people like me who grew up in a domestic abuse situation. Who then go on to come across people who invoke that feeling again.

Everyone has their demons they carry in one way or another. The trigger point then appears and can tip a person either in a positive way or a negative way.

For me last night in terms of my own personal self it’s in a positive way.

I made it clear about who I am as a human and some of the values I set in my life for myself and those around me.

Do I blame that person for my reaction? No. But I do believe that no matter where you want to be what you want etc. You owe people respect and dignity. Be gutter earth if it is necessary. But only take sewerage to that place, don’t take kindness and warmth and try to strip it away into something else. And certainly, don’t justify it by turning it into someone else’s fault. 

Own your shit. 

I know the trolls will have a field day with the information. After all it feeds theirs and narcissist base desires to be in a feeling of control and charge. To feel like they have something tangible to confirm their actions. Let them I say. For their lives lack substance and love and all those things that make humans a great species.

They will never experience the wonders of real friendships and loyalty and all those things that come from mutual respect.

Do I have ill  feeling? No.

You see there is no point to ill feeling and reaction. . It produces no positive outcome and only serves to grow resentment.

I try never to dwell on negatives as ultimately being unhappy is never my life goal. Seriously why would anyone aspire to negatives. Life is way to short to dwell.

We need to face forward and take each life challenge as a learning moment.

So I have started baring my soul. I figure actually I don’t care what it makes people think of me. It makes me inner happy to know I am able to start unpacking a few things and not pretending that life is a box of roses. Because it isn’t unless you live in Disney films.

Again I am ok.

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Chloe outfit from Gaia at the EQUAL10 Event

Sweet gloss from A R T E

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Kit  hair from Analog Dog

Catya bento head from CATWA

Edie  skin in 04 from  Amara

Picture taken at home.

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Self love Thursday ASMR Meditation for Grumpy Cats

Self love Thursday ASMR Meditation for Grumpy Cats

I am actually known in reality as the mad cat lady at times. Dont worry I only have two. However when I saw in the EQUAL10  blogger room these Angry Grumpy cats, I fell in love straight away and felt that Beverley was best suited to meeting them.

Todays Self Love video with Bev is her teaching these grumpy animals about how to love themselves and in turn, be less grumpy. Enjoy…..

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Grouchy cat from the = Rezz Room =at the EQUAL10 Event starting 10th August

Nansi Shorts (has huge hud) from Well Made at the August Designer Showcase

Isabella boho blouse from Addams

Bea Lipstick from A R T E

Refined eyebrows from A R T E

Arwen Eyeshadow from A R T E

Suffer well hair from Magika

Ava skin in ivory from Amara

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Genus baby bento head from GENUS

Cat sofa from Boudoir

Self Love Thursday with Bev

Self Love Thursday with Bev

In today’s Self Love Thursday we meet Beverley’s Guru Yogi.

It’s all about the calm as he guides through his daily tai chi routine.

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Verona top and shorts from Ison

Bea Lipstick from A R T E

Refined eyebrows from A R T E

Arwen Eyeshadow from A R T E

Suffer well hair from Magika

Ava skin in ivory from Amara

Gem eyes  from Amara Beauty

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Genus baby bento head from GENUS