The Sunshine

The Sunshine

It’s a glorious morning here in Kent UK. I’ve been out on my balcony just embracing some vitamin D and feeling the sun on my skin. The instant feel good it gives me is worth so much. Throw out all those antidepressants and get into the sun and feel the air on yourself. You won’t [...]

The Black dress

The Black dress

She’s slaying the steps in dark black silk, Serving full drama, smoother than milk. Hair on point, her patience? Thin. He’s late? Whatever. She always wins. Phone in hand, but she’s not gonna beg, She’s got better plans and can stand on two legs She poses, she pouts, she checks her own glow, Date or [...]

Easter weekend is here

Easter weekend is here

It’s Easter weekend and I’m very happy right now. I also have a week off work which means no work for 10 days. For the next two days I have a young man coming to stay over. My grandson which I am totally looking forward to. After that, my world is my oyster and I [...]

Still waiting?

Still waiting?

You know how we, as women, tend to live in “waiting around mode”? Waiting for the right moment, the right sign, or that perfect alignment of the universe. “I’ll take that trip once I’ve saved enough or lost that weight.” And don’t get me started on waiting for someone else to make the first move, [...]

Time to recharge

Time to recharge

I just need to sit under the trees and drink a beer some days. Sometimes in life we get so engrossed in the day to day, we forget that we need to take more moments to just think about ourselves and recharge our energies. Connect with people and forge relationships. My energies have been on [...]

Sunday

Sunday

What a beautiful Sunday it has been here in Kent 🇬🇧 today. It was chilly but so beautiful I felt that spring in my step to do spring stuff like spring cleaning and buying new cloths and furniture. Decorating and just opening up ready for the summer. Unfortunately in reality the funds don’t exist for [...]

Exhaustion

Exhaustion

I’m exhausted. So exhausted that it’s bothering me at how exhausted I’m feeling. Fibromyalgia exhaustion isn’t simple tiredness, it’s a heavy, unrelenting fatigue that feels like it’s taken root in every cell. On flare days, it’s like even blinking requires monumental effort. My body aches, my thoughts fog, and everything around me feels out of [...]

Look 4 fingers!!!

Look 4 fingers!!!

I’m sat here contemplating my next chore of many I set myself today. Honestly I may have decided on too many things and now unsure which one to complete first. It’s already 2pm and I’m way behind here. So I’m going to take a few moments and stare at my fingers before my next move. [...]