When you cant hang with the real thing, get a flat pack!

So, The Vlogger and Blogger network has a competition on to take Flat Kess, Trouble and Del on an adventure and take photos.

This actually isn’t my entry but I couldn’t help but add Draxtor, Ebbe and Rodvik and make them all hang out with me at Namaste Beach.

These are my flat pack mates. The friends I can pop up when I need to have friends.

It’s a bit like going to IKEA and shopping there for your friends. Personally I tend to choose the easy to erect items.

The idea reminds me of the film with Steve Martin “The Lonely Guy”.  Only instead I gave them a family photo moment.

I have been chuckling all night. Let the adventures begin……

Credits :-

Flat Draxtor Despres Strawberry Singh

Flat Ebbe Linden Strawberry Singh

Flat Rodvik Linden Strawberry Singh

Flat Kess, Trouble and Del BVN Headquarters

Shot on location at Namaste Beach



On my Facebook feed the other day I came across the song Immortality from the Bee Gees being sung by Celina Dion.

I have to be honest I’m not a mega fan, as in I’d not go to a concert, but I do love her voice.

She sang immortality by the Bee Gees to the Bee Gees.

I actually cried as the combination of the song and her voice was so beautiful.

The words though are so beautiful. “We don’t say goodbye.” I believe that. 

These days music often doesn’t have the same strength in lyrics that it used to. I can hear a song and like it just because it has a catchy tune.

Many of the older artists used to spend time really thinking about their story they wanted to convey in that song they wrote.

Those songs became our signature timeline songs we think of for different events in our lives.

There are still great songwriters now, but the manufactured lot, well if you listen closely the words have no meaning.

I digress from this dress but the name of it Immortal made me think of this .

 Now for the dress video.

But at the bottom of this blog Ive included the song I refer to. Because it reminds me of the special people who have come into my life.



Credits :-

My Immortal dress from Entice now at the Dark Style Fair

Vampire Heart choker from Entice at the Dark Style Fair

Bat Cuffs from Entice at the Dark Style Fair

Catya glossy lipstick A R T E

Spring eyeshadow from A R T E at the Applique Event

Princess inside pose from Luanes World

Catya Bento head CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya bento head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy Dark Skin Lara Hurley

Video shot on location at Once upon a Fairytale

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The family

Meet my little family. Soy man and Justin Bantam.

I’m kidding but if I were going to do the family thing then these will do don’t you think.

I have had a full on day today doing this that and then the other. I left myself logged into pixel paradise for a lot of it, but wasn’t here. I like to test the old machine out at times you know.

I did mention I was going to double post for two days. Only because events are coming to an end and I’m like hang on I need another day.

I figured the earth wasn’t going to delay its turn on the axis and so here I am yet again.

On one hand my bed calls me and on the other I remind myself its Friday night. I cant stay up past midnight if I want to!!

After all , I am old enough.


Credits :-

Talijah leather dress from KiB Designs available today at the Designer Showcase and it has a hud of 6 colour panels

Felicity hair from enVOGUE

Catya bento head CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy Dark skin Lara Hurley

Little boy Justin baby from gacha on the marketplace

Husband played by Soy

Because real life happens

I can’t sleep!!! 

So I’m laying in bed listening to music. Most don’t know I have a SoundCloud account and have messed with edm music a few years. Seriously not even my RL friends knows apart from a few.

I guess inside all of us is that other person wanting to keep out.

I love music and love visual things. Hence I faff around with videos etc.

Anyhow I’m going to share that side of my life more because heck why not.

I can’t sing, but I do a mean voice vocal.

No Undies?

Well I had to do this photo!

Yesterday wasn’t a great day for me. 

You know how it is, some days just aren’t doing it for you and others are?

Anyhow, one thing seriously did make me laugh very raucously at work. 

One of the ladies was describing her weekend. Her usual, she slaughters a few bottles and meets a man.

Her nickname is lush Lil and she wears it proudly. Great lady, fun and vivacious, but a slight beverage issue.

Anyhow I asked her how her weekend was.

I cannot repeat to you some of it as it would require censorship police coming in.

So she woke up Monday morning after going out the night before to a friends Easter house party.

Woke up on said friends kitchen floor, dog bowl next to her head, Great Dane staring at her, licking her face. People sat at table eating a fry up breakfast. Wearing not the dress she arrived in and no undies. 

Suffice to say that end of her was facing the group at the table sat eating their fry up!

So she did the only thing she really could do in that moment. Jumped up and sat at the table to eat breakfast.

I love that woman. She has had an incredibly tough life and discovered her youth last year when she finally divorced the nastiest controlling man after 15 years of a unhappy marriage.’yes she plays it close to the mark. But you know what, she is like a teenager grabbing those moments back she never had. 

I just absolutely love that she felt confident and able to brush that moment of awkwardness away. 

Hence the no undies pic.

Rear view.jpg

Credits :-

Thalya outfit in Rose and gold from Sweet Dreams now at the Hash Spring Flowers Event

Honest hair from Magika

Catya bento head CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at Corlevoli beach

April has done it!!!!

So Entice came up with this lovely dress in celebration of April the giraffe giving birth. Got to admit its cute huh.

Plus its a free group gift at the Entice store for the month of April.

I just received it and figured I would let you see it asap so no waffling from me, just head on and grab it while you can.

laid back.jpg


Credits :-

April the Giraffe dress from Entice as a free group gift for the month of April

Let me love you poses from Luanes World at the Pose Fair

Catya Bento head CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Cowboy hat with hair from Argrace

Giraffe is from Lil bug poses

Photo taken at Take Heart


The child in me

That child has had many a boo in the last 12 hours.

Seems like the universe is currently aligned to seriously hand me out some not so nice feelings.

Ive had in the last 22 months someone commit suicide that I was supporting as her union rep. Then in April this year I find out that one of the HR people involved had basically hacked my work emails and private drive in order to find information on that case. I reported it to the ICO and filed a grievance against the organisation. The ICO have found in favour of me . Case still ongoing.

Then I get my SL messed up and that’s another ongoing issue. But hey I’ll suck it up as Ive learnt I’m not alone in that kind of treatment.

Then the union I represent go and breach my data. Their admin person accidentally copies my case file and posts it to the home addresses of 5 other union reps 3 weeks ago! Seriously.

Then, last night my entire D drive documents folder empties. All of my video footage, photos, employment law course work and my music.

I’ve located them now but it’s going to take days to reorganise everything back. But I’ve also just discovered that the music I was working on, that has disappeared too.

You know that saying, “Persistance breaks resistance”? I hope its true because like a 4 year old, I wish to throw my toys right now and bang my hands on the floor .

So the photos I was working in last night for today’s blog, I need to search in that jumble I have located.

I have to give kudos to the company software that has helped as otherwise seriously I couldn’t get them back as they were deleted, deleted.


Credits : –

DiskDigger For the software to recover without me having to pay some computer person far more money for this.