Its all about me

Its all about me

I decided that I would mix things up a bit for the weekend and pop out a Coffee Vlog. Usually it’s a dance video but to be honest, I’m not feeling it right now.

I like a bit of spontaneity in my life and so why not.

Also I am updating in the blog about a change that I did think hard about and thought eh what the hell. I need to make my tasks a lot smarter and slicker rather than place a dead weight on my shoulders for the sake of separating things.

If I don’t make any sense here, I certainly hope I do in the video.

Today has been a very different one for me. I saw no one in reality as I had a video to shoot for my curly girl. I need to send it off to them by Monday so today was spent honestly falling about laughing with myself.

Look let’s face it I’m no tutorial queen, doubt I ever will be. However today I tried to film a hair styling blog that was just so skewed and hilarious at the same time. It’s for their advertising. Christ, yes you will see it suddenly appear on social media at some stage. God help you all,

I just cannot pretend I’m an influencer, I just cannot. I’m simply me, awkward, giggling and without any script. Don’t give me scripts ever, I’ll improvise I tell you that now!

Do you think I script any of my character videos?

Hell no!



Cristine Sweater and Zoe Combat boots from Adaams at the SLShopHop

Jolene Jeans from Blueberry

HDPRO Majer soft head from CATWA

Eline skin from AMARA

Reflectice eyes from Amara

Gloss Lipstick from A R T E

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

My Shape

Lara mesh body Maitreya

At home with Harriet

At home with Harriet

Harriet is now back to work since COVID struck and she became an instant mother.

The BBBC has given her the option of home working and a new daytime show “At home with Harriet”.

The new show is all about what’s going on in Second Life that they dont want you to see. Harriet style!



Giulia HUD Dress from Sacha’s Designs

Dua hair from DOUX

Reflectice eyes  from Amara Beauty

Zafirah lipstick from A R T E

Glam on eyeshadow from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Nora BOM skin from  Amara Beauty

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The hotel

The hotel

Harriet is on her travels again. Her and James are about to cover the Oscarzz. But are they too late?

Video down below



Artemis dress from [RG] now at the UP Event

Posh nail polish from Cazimi at the Designer Showcase

Gabriella glasses from Artilleri

Kimberley bento head from CATWA

Evie shape for the CATWA Kimberley head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Shot on location at the Essencia Hotel

Take a break

Take a break

A friend of mine suggested yesterday about wanting to take a break.

Funnily it’s not something that ever really dominates my mind because on the whole I feel if you are happyish with your lot then you don’t need a break but more so desire a change of scene.

Needing a break always suggests to me, just make a complete change as what you’re in isn’t working for you.

I do desire a change in scene. I’m still trying to work out which scene it is I want.

My mind has many scenes playing and it’s like a lotto ball whizzing around trying to decide where it will stop.

For today it’s the same old scene, on the bus headed to work.



Boo dress from ::OOPS!::

Jenkins block boots from Heels at the Designer Showcase

Tinsley hair from Truth Hair

Tropical eyeshadow and lipstick from A R T E

Catya bento head from CATWA

Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz

Lara mesh body Maitreya

Christy dark skin Lara Hurley

Kitchen is from the January Death Row Designs Shadow Box

Sweet Dreams

Sweet Dreams

Is the name of the outfit but also that which I’ve just woken up from. I woke up to a huge male ragdoll cat landing on my chest as he tried to wake me for some play time.

It’s a daily thing with him this behaviour. He always lands with a ball of paper. Which I then have to throw across the room while he starts playing fetch.

He has done this since he was a kitten and seriously is more like a dog than a cat at times. His name is Bondi (yep similarity to my blogging alt) and he is 2 years old. At the moment he weighs 8.5kg and apparently still will grow! I shall have  a lion by the time he is fully adult. Bondi has HCM a congenital heart defect and has regular scans and heart medication. Funnily same medication my grandson was on. So far Bondi has defied all the vets predictions on his life span and health. The vet asked me what it was I was doing as he is doing so well. The answer? Everything the vet told me not to do. I was told not to let him play all the time, feed him only vet advised foods, no excitement etc. Well, I made a decision when he was 8 weeks old. That was I’d rather he had a short extremely happy life, than a long miserable life just to keep me happy. And you know what? He is happy. Photo right at the bottom after I show you this adorable outfit Entice have made in my video.





“Sweet Dreams” Fat pack, bag and socks are available from Entice at the Enchantment Event which is running till the 30th November.

“Destiny” mesh head and Animated eyes from CATWA

“Lara” mesh body from Maitreya

“Christy” dark skin from Lara Hurley

“Steking” ears from [MANDALA]




What to do with all this free time.

Don’t get me wrong, it’s not hard to hang in a virtual world hours on end. But there is a thing called the real world and funnily I do like a visit now and then despite it proving challenging.

So today, it’s a beautiful day. I’m going to take my sorry backside for a walk around where I live.

I live alongside a lake which has ducks and geese. So there may be picture moments which I just may have to put in my blog.

As you are already aware  I’m not averse to mixing my real life and my virtual world together. The two combined are simply me.

Although I guess looking for the Shelby Creek Lodge from Trompe Loeil may not be so simple. I mean in the real world that bad boy would cost more than my annual salary could afford.

It was the perfect backdrop for my photo  moment to show off my dress.


Credits :-

“Birdie” hair from Truth

“Love” Taylor dress from Alien Gizmo’s

“Rose” Tattoo Tattoo Mania

“Christy” dark skin from Lara Hurley

“Destiny” mesh head CATWA

“Lara” mesh body Maitreya

“Zara” shape from Strawberry Singh

“Ribbon” boots from K|C Couture

“Ice Queen” rings .: RealEvil Industries :.

Background furnishings picked up from Zen Creations

House is “Shelby Creek Lodge” which picked up at FaMeshEd



Hello anybody there?

Not many know but I’ve been out of work for the last week. 

Stress in the work place is something I’ve never succumbed to before. 

I’m very much a woman who cracks on with things and can take most things I come across.

This last 6 months has not been so simple as that and I needed the time away to recalibrate myself.

I’ve mentioned before in a previous post about a data breach that happened to me in the work place. It’s still being looked into by them but the ICO (Information Commissioner) has provided their report to me that the organisation I work for, has failed the first principles of the Data Protection principles. So I’m still waiting for the apology that is now 6 months past due…..and waiting…..and waiting.

When it’s time I’ll tell you exactly what happened. Suffice to say that breach then my SL being hacked has really made me ask is the world nuts. Oh hang on, it is!

In the meantime I can disappear and do some SL shopping….


Credits :-

“Becca” dress with multi hud from Le Fashion Whore

“Destiny” mesh head from CATWA

“Christy” dark skin from Lara Hurley

“Lara” mesh body from Maitreya

“Shirabe” blonde hair from Argrace

Necklace and bracelets are free gifts from .: RealEvil Industries :.

“Ice Queen” rings are from .: RealEvil Industries :.

“Yoshee Ribbon boots” are from KC I Couture





Who has time

My cooking basically sux!

Last night I burnt my steamed vegetables. Who burns steamed vegetables? Yes me.

I now have a pot soaking with bicarbonate of soda in the hope that the black mess will disappear and my shiny pretty steamer pot will come back to me.

I’ve decided that really I Was meant to have someone else do my cooking. I bake mean cakes, but my mainstream cooking has somewhat declined over the years.

I don’t smoke by the way. I just love a good picture moment and it just indicates my attitude to the kitchen and to the heck I give.

Wanted:- Great cook. Has to be male and has to Cook a mean pasta.





“Mia” Geo top available from Alien Gizmo’s

“Marian” brown suede skirt available from Alien Gizmo’s

“Heart” tattoo available from Tattoo Mania

“Ice Queen” rings from .: RealEvil Industries :.

“Destiny” mesh head from CATWA

“Lara” mesh body from Maitreya

“Avery” hair a group gift from pr!tty


Location of photos is the beautiful sim HERMOUPOLIS lake a D scene of a video I did a while ago but throwing it in here as wasn’t able to shoot one again there today .

Chocolate fixes

I’ve decided I cannot pretend this battle with the chocolate bar is every going to end. I suffer to this enemy every day and I have decided the only way forward is surrender!!

Will I look like this in months from now? Hell no! But then wear it while I can and be done with it. The chocolate is begging me right now.

So to battle I go. Mars bar and I hand in hand.











“Ariana” top / “Nicki” shorts / “Taylor” thigh high boots all available at the Le Fashion Whore Virtual Secrets Sales Room  The event begins on the 1st of October and runs through until the 22nd October. All parts of this outfit available separately and have huds so you can change the appearance.

“Destiny” mesh head by CATWA

“Maeve” skin applier in Oak shade from 7 Deadly s[K]ins

“Lara” mesh body by Maitreya

“Luck” tattoo by Tattoo Mania and available at the Whore Couture Event

“Little by Little” hair from Exile


A linden lab update on Isabelle Cheren

A little update as a few have asked me…

Yes I put my face to it…Early morning rant so ignore the quality from an iphone.