So another year ends and we say goodbye to all the old and go into welcoming the new.
Or rather an anticipation for something new and a list of resolutions we set ourselves and by month 3 already fail in.
Why do we do this?
Save it all up for one night and promise ourselves changes we know deep down that if we truly meant them, we would be already on our way to achieving them?
This year I have zero intention of resolution making. I still have the past 25 years of those I’m still yet to achieve. So I may as well reverse and start from that point.
Or I just accept what is and rather than set myself these targets, just walk into the new year and grab it by the balls.
I can say I have a few projects coming up in 2020 which I’m excited about and that is something I look forward to sharing as the year evolves. But not just yet.
I prefer to share after the fact. Not before.
One reflection I have as I sit here tapping on my phone is that I do want to move towards live-streaming . But I’m not sure I want to do virtual live streaming.
There’s other projects in my head that I want to try out separate to virtual and I may yet.
I’m also still seeking advice on supporting people struggling with social media trolling.
That is a topic I spoke about and I’m very passionate about. But it needs to be done properly with all the safety mechanisms in place for confidentiality as well as bringing people on board who are trained.
This project may be wider than SL so hence I’m being very careful about how it’s done. But watch this space!
One major plan I do have in 2020 is that I have decided after nearly 11 years of caring and supporting people in the work place. It’s time for me to step back and allow myself to experience life with a little less pressure in it.
Apart from a huge court case coming up in July which is the culmination of the last 5 years of a case which had huge impact on me and affected me mentally, the time is nigh that I cut myself the slack. I shall be stepping down from the union and letting someone else take those reigns up. The court case will also give me closure to what hurt my soul.
I wish you all a very Happy New Year and a wish that 2020 is a lot more balanced than 2019.
Sadly deep down I don’t believe that will happen. We just need to make the best of what we can and certainly be a lot nicer and kinder to each other. 🥳🥳
New years party dress from Legendaire
Reflectice eyes from Amara Beauty
Oline Lipstick from A R T E
Blossom eyeshadow from A R T E
Charlotte hair from Analog Dog
Catya bento head from CATWA
Angel shape for the Catya head LizBitz
Lara mesh body Maitreya
Edie skin in 04 from Amara Beauty
Lets celebrate outdoor seating from Chez Moi
Happy New year champagne cart from Chez Moi